Is chivalry dead, did women kill it

Dear piker187, When things don’t work out for some men they blame it on the nice guy syndrome. Well sorry, it’s a poor excuse. This is what is typically noted with males who use this excuse: They fall too fast, they are trying to hard to be what they are not, they have a hard time taking constructive criticism especially from females and feel the need to be in control. Women love, I repeat love and at all times should be treated nicely and with respect. Young women do get scared when they think the males are moving too fast and it may appear they don’t appreciate the kindness…it usually is that they are frightened by it. As women get older they are able more to express their fears without worrying about the repercussions. So the nice guy syndrome is a behaviour pattern that is well documented and studied. By the way your response about treating them badly is also a typical responce…So my best advice is to slow down, take your relationships slow and by all means never, ever treat a women badly because you think this is what they want…you couldn’t be more wrong. Sue…good luck