is cheating the way to go?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for alost 4 years now… and we are sexually active.. but ummm I dont want it as much… I think im bored of his sex… not him… I love him very much and everything else is just wonderful BUTTT! I wanna try new men..? he has been my one and only… should I cheat even though I love him??

Answer #1

see.. im not htinking about himm.. im only thinking about me being satisfied.. wow! that makesme such a mean person:( but what shudd I do?

Answer #2

I see what your saying and your not a bad person for thinking that way because I really can c your point of view lol but NO I’ve been cheated on a number of times and believe me its not fun what if you found out he was cheating on you dont you think that would hurt u?? and also try taking a break from sex 4 a while and c if you miss it

Answer #3

thank u… I think this wekend ima go buy wipe cream and wear a sexy thong.. lol or darn I don’t know.. but I will find out what makes my sex funn…

Answer #4

no thats horrible if you cheat you cant possibly love him that much…ask hmi to do role play or try different positions…maybe even a 3some =]

Answer #5

Yea, exactly that is sooo shelfish of you too..

Im sorry im not trying to be rude, just dont make the mistake of cheating…

because if you really love him, it will hurt him..u could lose him for good..and for what??? so you could have one night of fun?? is it really worth that? no…just talk to him, tell him you want to try new things together…make it fun..

Sex isnt boring, and it doesnt always have to be in bed, with the same positions.

Answer #6

If you are even thinking of cheating on him, than you need to do him a huge favor and leave him. because be honest, if your thinking about it..then you dont really love him. If you did you would not ever consider doing something so hurtful

And why just because he doesnt satisfy u…

Talk to him about that, try new things, different positions…different places..Make it fun.

Cheating is NEVER ok! and if you say you love him then you wont.

Answer #7

Good! Jut dont hurt him by cheating onhim if you love him.

Talk to him, ask him what he wants to try lol

Answer #8

dont cheat! When two people fall in love they have the stage called in love.. for about 2-4 years the “in love” stage satisfies the couple.. after you grow acustum to eachother, most people hit the sticky spot called “love”.. some couples find them selves wanting somthing new.. they crave the butterflies of a first kiss or the feeling of the first time touching someone else.. I know exactily how you feel.. you love him still.. and even though you are satified by him.. you still crave the butterflies.. the foreplay… the connection you get when you are first geting to know someone.. if you can picture your life with out your one and only you have had so long.. well then end it.. it wasent true love.. if you cant then you should work past the wants of some other guy.. make a new friend.. add something new to your sex life.. do what ever you can to make your relationship work anyway you can..

Answer #9

NO!!! UGH! I WISH YOU HEARD HOW LOUDLY I SLAMMED those two letters on the keyboard just now! I’m surprised I didn’t break it! Discuss it with him, but CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION!!! there are things that you can do that are better than that… I have no suggestions as to what to try, but cheating is not the answer. If you are bored, then maybe look at a book. No, have him look at the book.

Answer #10

I agree you should not cheat…it will destroy your relationship. And what if you do decide to cheat and have sex with someone else and the sex is much worst the your boyfriends! then you would probably loose your boyfriend, and you probably wouldn’t wanna be with the ‘new guy’ either.I know it might be hard but you should Just talk to him about it.

Answer #11

NONONONONONONOOO! DO NOT CHEAT! EVER! I’ve been there, done that. dont ever think about cheating. it sucks and he will never talk to you again.

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