Is my Mother acting inappropriate?

Here are some links that may help to understand this issue better,

Healthy Boundaries

http://www.coping.org/innerhealing/boundary.htm
http://www.healthyboundaries.com/
http://drbalternatives.com/articles/si7.html
http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Relationships/serendipity/topics/topic004.htm

Yes, I think it was inapproaite… Apparently , she thought it was ok, but, you need to express your feelings to her, concerning this, and let her know, that you resent it, and would like to know that it was not going to happen again. It is a boundary issue, and perhaps her boundaries were breached when she was young, someone may have pushed themselves too far, into her private territory, causing her to not understand others boundaries, if this is true, you will have to firmly help her to understand that you are not at all comfortable with this behavior.

idk if it was inappropriate or if she was just trying to be”DOWN”. you never know is your moms lonely? does she get out much? does she have a group of girlfriends that she can chat with over tea or a beer??? you never know but in a case like this i wouldnt hold a grudge just let her know that you didnt really appreciate he actions and it embarrassed you and please dont do it again!!! but also look into her social life. if one exists.

Growing up is very difficult—for both you and your parents. They remember a little bundle of joy that they held and nurtured as a baby and now they see a budding adult. These days, children face things and know about things that their parents would never have imagined at the same age. The teenagers of today look older, act older and want to be older than their counterparts did just 20 years ago. It is the desire of all parents for their children grow up in the way that they should go (loving, caring, respectful, and being of good solid character). It is necessary that you truly understand that your parents have your best interests at heart. They will withhold privileges, set limits, and raise you to the best of their ability (neither they nor you are perfect), but be Thankful - They Care - many, many, many don’t. Ask them for guidance and seek to understand what truly motivates their decisions. One of the best ways to prove your maturity and prove that you are ready for more trust is to be respectful of your parent’s wishes and accept their guidance. Learn how to communicate love, honor, and respect to each other.