In love with somebody, and he loves somebody else.. help?

I have this huge crush on this guy. The problem is, he loves somebody else.

My class keeps teasing him about him and the other girl, even though she claims she doesn’t like him back.

She also uses his feelings. She made him stop wearing this hat that he really liked to wear. She also got him to stop watching a show he really liked. And she uses him to get her candy from the vending machines at school.

I would never do that to anybody that liked me, even if I didn’t like him back.

And he acts totally weird around me. Whenever he sits next to me, he shifts a lot, and doesn’t speak to me at all. I’m not sure weather that means he likes me or he hates me.

And also I’m not very pretty, and I’m very weird. I don’t know why he’d like me anyway.

Anyway, I’ve seen how much the girl he likes has changed him, and I don’t know how to get him to even notice me. Help??

Answer #1

WEll, in any relationship the boy is giong to give something up for the girl, sometimes without even thinking. It sounds to me like you just need to strike up a conversation with him. Don’t be shy, he’s not phychic, you gotta let him know hon.

Answer #2

Well first of all im just going to say that I have had the same problem, except my guy really does LOVE the other girl and she really LOVES him bac… and I know that it will never happen 4 me : (… any ways I think that you should at least try to talk to him, just start up little conversations that yall can both be interested in. after that goes well you should maybe start to flirt a little, and I suggest that yall should start to be friends 1st.

Answer #3

erm.. well talk to him.

Answer #4

tell him how you feel…thats the best way 2 start

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