Im spotting. . Could I be pregnant ?

Okay but you say you didnt use condoms geezs make up your mine!! And your not mature for not useing condoms okay whatever

Okay to not ues condoms mature?? Yea right he cheated on you and know your back with him trust him and now not uesing condoms yea your very mature Rolls eyes

Mandyloo is right ^^^ Not useing condoms is very immature

I dont care if you are 19 years old, not using condoms and not taking a test yet - is immature.

we DO use condoms , we didnt once . & I am mature , I dont care what you nor anyone else says . & Im not about to sit here & argue with anyone about me & my man not using a damn condom . dont fckn jump on my bck for asking for advice , especially if you`re friends with the chick I was just arguing with .

FYI : Im 19 years old , Im very mature . I live by my damn self , go to school & have a good effinjob , just because I havent taken a test yet doesnt make me immature . I dont want to take a home pregnancy test , Ive made an appointment with my doc. & Ill know for sure next month .

dont come at me sideways , cause Ive done nothing to you . mad cause I didnt choose to use condoms , thats NOT at all stupid .

my act is very much together people ! Im in a relationship of 3 years , this isnt a random hook-up . so chill , I asked for simple advice , not for you guys to jump on my actions cause you guys dont think me & my boyfriend shouldve HAD unprotected sex .

Wow, so many things wrong with this:

-You weren’t using condom - stupid. Why the hell were you not using protection, I dont care if you think you ar ready for a freakin child - your not and you should be using them. Grow up and act more mature. -He has cheated on you - yet you are still with him and trust him. Wow. -Yes, you can get pregnant, spotting is not always normal. You should take a freaking pregnancy test asap. It’s very important that you find out if you are or not, you should have already taken one, act mature, buy a test, and find out, because if you are, you and the baby need to see a doctor to make sure you are both healthy and to catch any complictions if there are any.

Spotting is normal in pregnancy but isn’t a definite sign, I had spotting last month and I’m not pregnant. Obviously if you’re having unprotected sex you should be worried, you need to get your act together. Really all you can do is take a test and if you aren’t pregnant you need to think about what you’re doing with your life before you do end up conceiving.

I`ll know by next week * not next month .

I am 18 years old and have had unprotected sex. I’m not the most mature person in the world, but seriously, are you the most mature person in the world Mandyloo? Are you telling Jnae that you are perfect and have NEVER made a SINGLE mistake in your life that ever resulted in something bad? I highly doubt that! She came here to get advice and all you do is btich at her for making a decision that she felt was appropriate for her? If she or anyone else feels like they want to have unprotected sex, that is THEIR decision, not yours. You had NO right to call her immature. I believe that what she said about herself is true. I have grown up so much in the past year and have learned that the “mistakes” people make in their lives are essential for everyday life. So they know what they have done and how they can make it better the next time, or in this case, protect themselves. I am going through a pregnancy “scare” right now as well..only I was protected. So are you saying that just because she didn’t use a condom, she is immature? Do you not think that taking the so called risk of getting pregnant ( having sex ), is just as immature as not using a condom?

Jnae, if you are pregnant, congratulations and if not, I hope that when you and your boyfriend decide to have children, you prepare yourself in everyway possible. The whole cheating on you part…well…I do NOT agree with the saying: “Once a cheater, always a cheater” because it’s not true. My first boyfriend, cheated on me and has not for the rest of the relationship. I have cheated, but have not since that one day. People can and do change when they realized they have really hurt someone.

Again Jnae, wish you alll the luck in the world! God bless you and your boyfriend! Hope everything works out!

so Jnae was you prego?? im so worried about me…cause im going through the same problem…can you please help me with some advice??? =) thanks.

so Jnae, did was you pregant?? cause im going through the same thing and I want your advice…please help me. =).

no , shes not right . thats retarded , so every married couple is “immature” ?

Im over it , if youre not going to respond to anything I WROTE please don`t write at all . thanks .

Jnae, It is not immature to have sex with your boyfriend of 3 years if you want to have a child. If you don’t then you need to make sure you protect yourself. I think you have your period and the symptons you are having are all due to your period, I hate to sound negitive, BUT, me and my husband are trying to have a baby and it has been about 4 months and nothing, I really thought I was this time because I had my period on 12-1-08 and thought I was a 28 day cyle person. So when I did not get it by the end of December I thought I was, but just got it today. So I will try again next time. You are a adult and you know what is best for your body, H*ll I could have taken a test at the end of December but I was giving it till 1-5-09, so the little amount of time you wait to take a test is not that crucial. As long as you are not smoking or drinking or drugs, If you want a child good luck I hope you are, and if you want answers, you are doing the right thing by talking to your doctor, because it could be something else that needs to be addressed. As far as him cheating, kick him to the curb or atleast make him beg a little bit, I am sure you are worth it.