How to stop being scared to tell my friend I like them?

ok so..I have a friend..and I kinda like them..like a lot I’ve known them for a while…but I dunno my friend would feel the same about me..and im scared to say anything about it to them because of the way they might act and even if we couldnt be together im scared that we still wouldnt be able to be friends anymore because I told them..and it might just be awkward for them or something…what should I do?

Answer #1

hehe, I just asked a question like this…I have the same problem. I was told to hang out with them, and give subtle hints…but not so much that you are scaring them. good luck!~dracoalba

Answer #2

If I were you I would tell them just what you were asking above!

Tell the friend that you don’t want to hurt the friendship or make things awkward - because the friendship is most important to keep. Then tell the friend that you have been wondering if there is perhaps something more to the relationship than “just friends” but you aren’t sure. Then ask what the friend thinks.

If they agree - YAY! If they aren’t sure - then don’t press it and let time make things more clear. If they say no - then don’t make it a big deal and after a little awkwardness things will go back to normal.

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