Im scared my step dad is a rapist

ok its this dude that my mom knew since she was little but they werent really friends they was just cool and then they reunited and she introduce him to me and my brothers so then my brother that stay in the morning with me before I go to school he went to minnesota so now its just me and my step dad but almost every time I turn around he looking at me or just starin at me and everytime I get home from school he be at home and it be me and him and I be scared to go upstairs 2 my room I just feel so uncomfortable around him but im scared 2 tell my mom

Answer #1

Talk to your mom, dont start the convesation saying his a rapist, but that you feel weird around him becuase you just met him. Start with that and see how it goes.

good luck

Answer #2

If you feel uncomfortable around him you MUST tell your mother…its your own house you shouldnt be feeling that way. tell her before something does happen.

Answer #3

maybe he is looking at you weird becuase you use the word be a lot

Answer #4

Rapist is a pretty strong choice of words. More likely the term should be child-molester.

However, if he has only been a recent addition to your household, you may be letting your imagination run away with you.

Don’t jump to conclusions. Respect him and treat him as someone who loves your mom besides you., It is sometimes difficult for strangers to know how to relate to their partners children.

If you “think” he is coming on to you, warn him that you think he is acting inappropriately and you want him not to act that way.

If he actually does try to molest you, TELL YOUR MOTHER. If she doesn’t believe you then report him to your state’s child welfare services or your school nurse or counselor.

At 14-15 it is easy to misconstrue things sometimes, so be certain of your conclusions before acting on them.

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Answer #5

maybe he wants to be friendly to you but doesnt know how, have you tried talking with him about any thing? like maybe he wants to talk to you but he doesnt know what to say

Answer #6

Dont be afraid to talk to your mom about this, because the only person that can prevent this from happening is your mom and you to believe in her. And you never know if he is. He might want to watch over you just in case if your doing something wrong.

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