Over 3 years ago I dated a guy on and off for about a year, then after him got into a very serious and fighting filled relationship with another guy who im ending with now. I stopped talking to my ex boyfriend because my life was taken over by this new boyfriend. It became miserable after about a year and I started talking to my ex again...this was last summer...we would talk a few times a week..during the school year the same thing..and now this summer we are up talking till after 3 am...talking about sexual things and flirting and pretty much being so close that im in love..and I dont know what to do..hes with a girl but he doesnt really want to be that much..hes never said he likes me but hes said he talks to me more than his girlfriend?
No where in that story did you memtion your bff and her feelings. So She really doesn't matter to you or him!!! If you like him than tell him. Tell him that if he wants to talk to you about these things at 3:00am then you should be his girlfriend not her. If he won't break up with her. Then he doesn't like you that much. Young guys think with the wrong head. So be careful protect yourself. Remember if he is talking to you about these things at 3:00am, if you and him were dating...WOULD he be talking to another girl this way??? What you are feeling isn't LOVE it is LUST. Your hormones are raging.
