What if I don't like going out with his mates?

Well I’ve been with this boy for a week and sum days, and friday he took me to the pieamear, and he was showin me all his mates, and there was loads, lke 40 of them and he kept tellin me to talk to some of them and me and my materach were bored at the pieapearr and wanted to go and we told my boyfriend and he was like okay if you really want to go I’ll come with you then he kept makin up excuses like be back in a min what was really like 10m and then he kept sayin we cant go out yet because people still wana to come in…witch was a lie soo we said we go and he made us go on our own and he didnt even hug me goodbye and we was standin around in the cold all night for like 3 hours :| so me an dmy mate decided to get pissed… and den we all sleept round kiine witch was ok and then the next day I decided to go town miff my boyfriend because I sed I whud go to meet sum more of his mates and there was like another 50 of them and because id ont really know anyone there my boyfriend kept leavin me to go over and talk to another lot of people, and he kept tellin me to talk to some people and I dont really know who or what to talk about.? but as we wass walkin there he was like I knw 2 people hu fdancey me…and that is me and some other girl hu hangs around wit him… and he sed that if she wanted to go out with him that she shud of asked earlier before he was going out with mee.. and that not a sort of thing to say to yur own girlfriend? I Love him to bit I just dont like bein around his mates :| I dont really know what to do anymore im really confussed :|

Answer #1

,< Too Young?? I’m 15 & Age doesn’t matter about anything =l My Bro has been with his bird since she was 13 and she now 23 :| I love My boyfriend to bit :| I’m Just nervous About things :| + I’ve got a lot of shi*it going on at the moment :|

Answer #2

You sound way too young to even have a clue about relationships. You cant possibly “love” someone in a week without even knowing who they really are! I suggest you wait a few more years to take on a boyfriend. Become friends with them first. That way you’ll already know HIS friends!

Answer #3

OK angel, now your really starting to tick me off! im tired of you saying that someone is too young to do something!!! Its a humans nature to want to be with the opposite sex in a relationship!! Telling them that they are too young to know what love is may be true, but it also may be wrong!!! and she never said if they were or were not friends before they were going out!! and the whole point of going out with someone is to get to know them better, even more then as a friend!! Last of all, no one can explain or tell you what love is, so you need to find out for yourself!!! So, dont tell someone that they arent in love when they could be and your screwing it up for them!!!

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