I like my best mates girlfriend

Basically, whats happened is I’ve got 2 mates that I count as my best mates, and id do anything for em. J.S (one of my 2 best mates) was going through a pretty messy break up, so I tried helping him and his ex-girlfriend, BJD, sort out their shit, to hopefully end up being friends. I didnt really know the chick at the time very well, but after trying effortlessly to get them happy against, I got to know her very well, and she got to know me very well. Then, just to make matters worse, I sorta started liking her. She was what I would love in a girlfriend, but after my mates break up, I wouldve looked like the biggest prick if I randomly came out and said ‘hey, I like her’ so I kept my mouth shut. After about 2 weeks, I got them happy again, so they were actually talking, and BJD and I became really close after it. So maybe a had a chance with her, until, my other best mate, S.S, comes to me and says that he likes her. And then I think again, im going to look like the biggest prick if I said ‘HEY, me too!’. So yeah, as I said, id do anything to make em happy, so, I actually got S.S and BJD together, and now, if they ever like have an arugement or something, she comes to me and tells me everything, but, I feel like a cunt because I comfort her, when I know I like her, and I know my mate would be going through a hard time. What do I do? lol

Answer #1

well…you dug urself into a really big ditch… all I can say is there are other fishes in the sea so check them out…so you can spend less time thinking about your friends girl… if you don’t find one you like better… they might break up soon so then would be the time to say something… you might want to back off for now …with her coming to you all the time you will be vulnerable to say things and do things you might regret.

Answer #2

bros before hoes always…

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