I'm due in two days and scared of giving birth

I am 15 and Due to give birth to my son in 2days… I am terrified about giving birth. I will have no one there at the birth as my best friend is on holiday too! =[ Advice please

Answer #1

First of all, congrats! I hope you have a beautiful healthy baby. I understand how you could be scared. Just know that you’re a tough girl and you can do this. Just make sure you know who to call (taxi, ambulance) and keep the number handy and make sure you take whatever you need to the hospital. When you are prepared, you will be less afraid. God is with you. I will pray for you :) Best of luck.

Answer #2

Sweetie, don’t worry. It’s not as bad as people make it to be. Some people get meds to ease the pain so maybe you can try that. When you get there and he(baby) starts coming out, you wont even be thinking about the pain. You’ll be thinking about seeing your baby for the first time. Also, is there anyone else that can be there for you??

P.S Don’t get me wrong, there is pain but everyone is different. You’ll do fine.

Answer #3

Tell your mum you’re scared and you need her. Not many mums can resist the truth like that…

Answer #4

It’s painful, but not as bad as everyone makes it out to be. I was 18 when I gave birth.. and I would suggest finding at least someone to be there with you.. b/c trust me you’ll want someone there with you. =)

I wish you all the luck

Answer #5

Try to think of the billions of women that have done this before you and came out just fine, or more appropriately, a lot stronger having gone through it. I’ve done it. That kiddo has to come out somehow. The waiting to be in labor (like you are now) was the worst part for me.

Answer #6

I’m glad you told her. Maybe in the next couple of days she will “come around”. Don’t be afraid to tell her that you would like her to be there for you.

Answer #7

well tell your friendswhich ever friend will hlp you and your mom will alaways be there for you even though if she is mad at you she be there luck with your baby :)

Answer #8

I told her last night as I was too scared to before, from her reaction I am guessing she wont be around during my labour/birth unfortunatly. I dont have many family members although lots of my friends said they would be there but its just not the same as someone your really close to e.g mum/bestfriend etc. Thanks for your comments :)

Answer #9

Have you told your mom yet? She can be your best friend and supporter during the birth and long after. Trust her. She has devoted her life to raising you, give her a chance now in your hour of need.

Answer #10

yeah when I first told my mom I was I think 17 but she made me this big big sweet 16teen and when I told her she was not happy. She wanted me to have an aboration and later on se kicked me out. Now im 26 and she loves my son to death and she even tells me if she can have him. So dont feel bad she’ll come around soon enough and she will love that baby too just dont take advantage of her. Seek help and go to school. She will help but you would have to do it all on your own because remember you knew what was going to happen once you had intercourse.

Answer #11

well want to know a funny story my cousin who is 13 had a baby last month she lives with me soo I came home and we were by ourself and I called my best friend instead of the hospital first lol and im only 12 soo now im her godmother

Answer #12

Hi how did you get on giving birth. Sorry I have just seen your message would have loved to have given you some advice prior to the day. Message if you want to chat about the baby etc. I have four and was a young mum too. thanks chat soon kel

Answer #13

Thanks :)

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