Im not even allowed to see my boyfriend anymore

Being together for nearly 2 years, his mom loved me. Hugged me and told me she loved me every time I left their house for the day. She would take me shopping and out for girls nights, and everything. We told her we had sex (once again we’ve been together nearly 2 years) we told her because its best she found out from us then some random person cause somehow word gets around fast in this small community, and she told her son, my boyfriend, that she doesn’t want us seeing each other again.

Well, I’m sorry but I can see why she doesn’t want you guys seeing each other again. I mean, she’s right, in a way. You’re 16 and he’s how old? Probably not much older and… she’s only trying to prevent you guys from getting pregnant. I honestly believe that. You guys are young and that’s a big responsibility. And yes, I know.. you guys are being careful or whatever BUT you’ve gotta understand that it takes ONLY ONCE …. you get my point.

We are both turning 17 within the next 3 months. He’s 6 days younger than me. And we have used two forms of prevention, which doesn’t always work but its better than nothing. We know the risks plus we only had sex once

Like I totally understand where she is coming from, don’t get me wrong. But I’m sure she was expecting us to have sex sometime in our relationship, but its kind of hard to suddenly stop seeing each other since we have been together nearly two years now, I just hope this doesnt ruin my relationship with her :/ she’s such an amazing mom

Telling her was a very mature and responsible thing to do. I applaud you guys for that. However, as a mother myself, I’d also be worried given the fact that you guys are still young and have your whole lives ahead of you. Sex, although a bonus in a relationship, can change your lives forever. And you’ve gotta be ready for that possibility no matter what. Are you? Is he? It can get complicated, you know? And again, that’s what she’s trying to get across to you guys. Give her some time to cool off and then approach her with what you got to say about the whole situation. Talking it out will make it less stressful.

I’m sorry Laura :( I know that things are really tough for you right now. The storm will end eventually and then you’ll have a little peace and beauty about life again and then another storm will come.. xD just keep strong and everything will work itself out. As somebody on some movie somewhere said “you know its not the end when its not perfect” really stupid saying actually but :P hugs it’ll get better.

I believe almira is right. From a parents point of view, its all about protecting their child. And although you two had been together a while, sex is still sex and you know, nothings 100% I can see why she wouldn’t agree with the sex since despite being careful, if something happrns youre both still young. I, myself waited til I was legal and ,hopefully, mentally mature enough to handle if it it should happen. Hopefully, Id probably freak out still. Honestly though, I think shell come around, if she hadn’t already.