im 14 and neeed help

okay im 14 and I stayed at my ex boyfriends house and I have missed my monthly thing be for but we had sex and I have stad sick to my tummy and gained weight and we dident use acondom and im not on brithcotroll and im 16 days late on my thing so I told him and he is 19 and im 14 and so he went to get me a pee test from the stor and it came back negtive am I to learly to tell or what should I tell my mom and go to thte dr or what neither one of us knows what to do can some one help

Answer #1

ermm.. I’de say go to a teen health centre and get a pregnancy test! hope your not pregnant! cause thats just a really huge amount of retarded. and hes a pedo for having sex with you.

Answer #2

Yeah, you shouldnt even of had sex with this boy For one, you called your period “my mothly thing” And secondly, you called a pregnancy test a “pee test” Sweetie, before you have sex you should consider the possible consequence of it. Leave this guy. He’s disgusting for doing this and you dont deserve this Until you grow up, learn about your body and sex… dont have sex. If its come back negative wait.. take another one in about a week and see what that says. dont go worrying your mother about this if your not pregnant. I would how ever tell her about this 19 year old guy you had sex with. because that needs to be sorted.

Answer #3

Frankly, that was real F*ing stupid of you! Not only are you too young to understand the implications of sex, you’re letting yourself being taken advantage of a 19 year old pervert(and now, pedophile).

The earlier you let your parents know about this, the better. I don’t know if you’re pregnant or not, but you should get checked. And realistically, you don’t need to be seeing this guy. I’m sure he makes you feel like an adult, and is really nice, and all of that, right? Well, you just proved my grandmother’s idea that young girls a very vulnerable to flattery. That’s why they’re sleeping with older, more experienced men:because they know how to apply that experience.

So, in a nutshell, tell your mom, get a test, break up with the guy, and call the cops if things go sour, because there is ALWAYS that possibility with someone like him, no matter how much you think you know him.

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