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14 and pregnant please help

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and he asked me to marry him (of course we are waiting until we are old enough) but we got carried away and here I am pregnant. He told me hes excited to start a family with me and he will never leave. And trust me, weve been through ALOT in two years. His mom has told him he can have sex when hes 14 and he is, so she shouldnt be too surprised. We have had sex before and my mom found out. She didnt flip out and yell but she gave me a lecture. I have friends who will be there to help and im almost sure my boyfriend isnt going to up and walk away. I know how to take care of kids as I have 8 nephews and nieces and 2more on the way. Im afraid of telling my parents because I want my boyfriend to be a part of my babies life. I think I will be a good mom but I have no idea how to tell my mom or what exactly to do next.

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Answer #1

Well you’re going to have to tell your parents sooner or later because they WILL notice when you start getting bigger. It’s up to you to determine when the time is right. The two of you need to slow down, don’t get married because you have a baby, that’s a terrible reason to do so. You both are still kids yourselves whether you want to admit it or not, there’s no need for marriage right now. Don’t get your hopes up too much, just because someone promises you “forever” doesn’t mean that it will happen. A baby will change EVERYTHING about the relationship. Just take it day by day.

Answer #2

Well first thing is, realize you two are young. You two are hardly mature enough nor have stopped growing yourselves yet. Don’t place your dependance of the baby on your boyfriend. Promises of forever especially at this age pretty much never happens, if you two are the exception, great, but all I’m saying is do not depend 100% on him with the baby.

There’s nothing to it, sit your parents down tell them it’s happened. No way around it, no way really to soften the blow(as long as they don’t find out when you give birth). Just be brave, tell them it happened and that you are having the boyfriend in the baby’s life.

Answer #3

Next time use protection, seriously! Good luck with your baby though, I hope he/she has a good life!

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