Im 14 and dont know

first find out if your pregnant to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test 2-3 weeks after you had sex (any sooner and the results won’t be accurate) in the morning with your first pee is the best time and take it when your period is due alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results

also you both sound like your moving way to fast its illegal to get married before the age of 18, unless you have a good reason (and unfortnantly because you “‘love eachother”‘ doesnt count to the people who decide) you also should’nt be havings sex at your age but at least you did wear a condom when you did it might be best to go on birth control (after the baby is born of course) so theres a much less chance of it happening again in the future first talk to your boyfreind about this if you do turn out to be pregnant, does he want a baby, is he ready to become a father? is he willing to support you? and are you ready to become a mother? are you ready to put your childhood and social life, education, ect on hold for quite a few years to care for the baby? it might be best to talk to your mum about this, and unless shes a cold heartless woman, she’ll realise her daughter made a mistake and needs her help and support right now you should also talk to your stepdad and ask him for his support, if he can help you raise your child for a bit you might be able to continue your school education that school education is extreemly important because you need that to get a job and to work and earn money that goes towards caring for yourself and your baby and everything he/she will need