Will I be able to afford for us to move in?

you have to be careful when moving out for the first time. Its a lot more expensive than you would think. But it depends on how much he makes and what you will be working. you have to be careful about the lease too, you don’t want to get screwed. but honestly, I would milk where your at for as long as possible. real life will kick your as*

he earns about £1,600 a month and I have a part-time job where I am earning an average of £250 a month. any advice on what I should do about the parent situation?? x

This guy isn’t serious about your relationship. He’s only in it for the thrill of turning you against your family. This guy is just using you and you are too blind to see that. You shouldn’t move in with the guy because he doesn’t know what he wants and he is unfaithfull. Believe it or not he’s a flirt and would do whatever it takes to control you. I see him being abusive. He could never fully comitte to the relationship the way you would like him to. My advise is don’t waist you money or your time. Go to school, you’ll be successfull and will meet your soul-mate in the near future.

lol fair enough! nahh he hasnt had his own place before…but I no a lot of his friends are renting…I dont think hes too keen on the renting idea and wants to get a morgage but that wud be sooo expensive for him…and yeah college is my main focus completlely…he knows how ambituous I am (I want to be an actress in musical theatre) and I dont wana do anything to get in the way of that…but I guess I was just wondering if it would be possible without getting into a stupid amount of debt that ill be paying off for the rest of my life! x

answers4all just joined the other day too, probably doesn’t know what he’s talkin about. And I forgot you arn’t in the U.S, so rent and all that good stuff, I have no idea what its like over there. All I know is that I wish I would have stayed at home rather than get my own place with some friends for college. Because I was only working part time too, making real good money I might add. But that put such a strain on me financially I still havn’t recovered. it would definately put a strain on your boyfriends wallet, but if he’s willing to do it. Has he had his own place before, because that makes a huge difference. All I have to say is that its tough, real tough. College should be your main focus