I want to ask my boyfriend to marry me but, is it right?

I want to ask my boyfriend to marry me. He is a typical man on leaving everything to the last minute. I want us to get married somtime in the next two years and be married forever. We both know that we are right for each other. Life is to short for us to let it keep going be with out us being as a married couple. Well I am 24 he is 20, I have two kids that he has taken on has his owen. Another reason why I want to get married is that way I feel a little more like I belong to someone and that someone wants me just as much as I want him. I had a very bad relationshop before my man now so I am just afraid that I’ll do something wrong. My Man now thinks that the time we have been together some be long enough that I should be able to change. What should I do?

Thanks, soccer mama

Answer #1

I agree with the previous two post. My cousin was in a terrible relationship. Once they broke up, she fell in love with a guy who was 20…while she was 25. I never understood it because those at that age, you all should be on two totally different agendas. It is not wise to marry a 20-year old boy while you are 24 with two kids. He may accept it now because he doesn’t have kids…but as he ages and wants to have his own, trust me I don’t believe it will be with you. He is young now, so as long as he’s comfortable, he will be happy. But wait until he is at least legal to drink. Let him grow up first before that kind of committment.

Answer #2

I just wanted to mention, you said you were in a bad relationship before, so make sure you’re not trying to settle for someone who is “okay” or “treats you allright.” I was in a really bad relationship and I wanted to marry anyone who was nice to me for a couple of years after mine. Looking back now, I realized what I took out of every relationship since then, so that I could learn to grow and learn what a healthy relationship was all about. I highly reccomend waiting to get married after bad relationships because you probably still have buried issues about this guy that you probably wont even realize until way later. Good Luck BTW, marriage is only a paper, its really how you feel in your heart

Answer #3

“Hes a typical man leaving everything to the last minute”…Hun, hes only 20 yrs old! Maybe hes not ready to settle down just yet. Especially with an already-made family! Thats a big step at his age, and a big responsibility for him.

When you say that you want to get married so you can feel like you belong to someone, and that you want someone to want you as much as you do them, you sound very insecure! Thats really not a good reason to get married! Your afraid of losing this guy, and thats why your saying you want to be married within the next 2 years. If you felt secure in the relationship, you wouldnt be so worried about doing something wrong.

Your telling us how you feel about marriage, but you haven’t mentioned his feelings on the subject! Have you even talked to your bf about marriage? Maybe hes the one you should be talking to about this, not us!!

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