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I want my happiness back!!!

my father expired in septemer, and I had been really rude to him, when he was alive. but he loved me very much. I regret not being a good daughter… I even could not cry at his death… is there some problem with me?? I loved him from all my heart, though… now I have started becoming quite a misanthrope… I hate God, my relatives and even myself??? what do I do???

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Answer #1

Everyone deals with grief differently, just because you didn’t cry doesn’t mean you loved him any less than you really do. Don’t blame yourself, I know your father loved you. He’ll always be with you, prayers help. Take as long as you need to heal : ) My prayers will go out for you.

Answer #2

You shouldn’t blame this on anybody not even yourself. Tjis is not your fault. Your father really must did love you but God made his time to be up. I know you may not believe this but your father is know an angel and I am pretty sure that he will always remeber you and he will continue to be in your heart. If you love him I know that you should ask god to forgive you from what you did. Im very sorry about your love but don’t blame this on the world or anybody. Just tell gOD TO KEEP YOU IN HIS PRAYERS,fAMILY IN HIS PRAYERS AND GOD TO KEEP YOU AND YOUR FATHER IN HIS HANDS. I know that maybe before he died when you were just rude I can promise that you probably love your father then and you just had a way of shoing hm. So I will keep you in my prayers ok

Answer #3

Coping with Grief and Loss

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/grief_loss.htm

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