I want her to be my girlfriend, should I ask?

I’m in a bad situation. ok. so I met my best friend in 3rd grade and she and I have been best friends ever since. she knows I really like her, and once she’s asked me out. suprise! so we tried it and it didn’t work out. we never had a chance to see eachother. so were both in 8th grade now and I have 0 friends except my lunch table. I’m affraid of asking her out because if I get rejected 1, there goes my favorite person of all time, and 2 there goes my lunchtable and I’m off on my own. what do you think I should do? ask her or play it safe?

Answer #1

just play it safe, if you’ve been bestfriends with her since third grade, and you’re in eighth grade now. five years is a LONG. time to like someone with barely anything happening. and if when she asked you out, nothing happened, and you didnt get anywhere besides awkward moments, then she just asked cause she felt bad. I don’t know, it sounds like a bad idea to ask her out.

Answer #2

I’m starting t concider asking her out on like, the first day of summer or somthing. that way we can always spend time togather, at the pool or watever. do you think thats a good plan?

Answer #3

You had a go at it already, and it didnt work out. Sometimes friends are just better off staying that way!

Answer #4

Im a girl but in the same situation. Met the boy this year, he likes me, I like him…I dont know if hell ask me out though. What middle school do you go 2?? I go to oakridge

Answer #5

I agree wit the person above me just play it safe for awile and after if your feelings are the samee and stronger 4 her than go for it hope that helped =)

Answer #6

well, if I were her id be dying for you to ask me out, just me I dont know her personality. oh yah, never let the girl ask you out.

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