I think im pregnant

So me and a friend messed around a little in a car…ened up with our pants off no sex though but when he kinda did his thing and everything came out a lot of it landed on my pants and underwear soo I didnt wear the underwear but had to wear the pants… And I kept reading online and it said it can go threw clothing…so I took a pg test and it was negative and I’m not sure I did it right…but it said I had to do around 5 days before a missed period…and my periods kinda irregular so I dont know how accurate the test was…but whats scaring me the most is that my breast feel tender and stuff and I got cramps yesterday just like what I get before my period but I didnt get the period and my cramps stopped..I mean I usually never have cramps and when I do just for a day but what should I do

Answer #1

Please please please calm down ok? Everything is going to be fine, I really feel for you here because its a serious issue. But it sounds to me like your letting your imagination run away with you, it can seriously happen. You are scared that you are pregnant and so maybe you feel the symptoms but they arent really there. I say this because the test was negative and also because you guys didnt actually have sex, people have had unprotective sex for weeks and months before concieving a child. It sounds incredibly unlikely that you are pregnant and I’ve never ever heard that it can go through clothes, this is a little graphic but. To concieve a child the sperm has to be ejeculated near the back of the vagina (so a penis would have to actually be inside) it wouldnt go right to the back if it just went through clothes seriously. Take another test just to calm down and proove to yourself this is all in your head. Im not sure if you are American? But in Britain this is such a common problem that the government will give abortions to underage people for free and your parents dont even have to know, So if your from Britain theres that safety net. If not and you really turn out to be pregnant id suggest seeing a doctor and they will advise you to the best course of action. Remember you didnt do anything wrong though being young is all about fooling around :) also remember to stay calm thats very important theres no point in upsetting yourself when there is no proof. Also I’ve heard a lot of women say when they have a child growing inside of them they can sort of sense it, like no feeling they have ever felt before. I hope this works out for you :(

Answer #2

I’m gonna take you by the shoulders ok I’m looking at you in the eyes.

“If that were true I would have 20 kids lol”

Sperm has to make its way up the cervix and immediately up into the fallopian tubes to find an egg,if they dont they die.

Answer #3

Firstly you can get pregnant without having sex and the penis does NOT have to be at the back of the vagina. if sperm is even around the vagina literally sat on it there is a chance, even if it’s low, that you could get pregnant. Although in this case seen as though you did not wear the underwear then you should be fine. Pregnancy tests are quite accurate and it is extremely unlikely 2 would be incorrect. So- maybe take another one or even visit the doctor who will take a accurate blood test.

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