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ok, well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now. (we made a year on 420)Im 16 and he will make 20 tomarrow, I know what your thinking that is wrong but im mature and he is imature so we meet happily in the middle. He has started to mention sex lately but he doesnt force it on me at all he says it is my decission and he can wait for me. I am a vigin and so is he. I am also on birth control, but not for baby reasons. I have given it a lot of thought lately and I think it might happen soon. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice… and how was the first time you had sex? also can the gynocologist tell when you had sex? and can she tell your parent if you are under aged?

thanks, Hannah

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Answer #1

Before having unprotected sex, you both should go to the doctor and get an HIV as well as STD test. You can ask for the results and show them to eachother that way both of you are one hundred percent certain of being healthy. When you do decide to go through with it, make sure you have a nice place and lots of time. Make out before and make sure to be relaxed. It might hurt a bit the first time but this depends on how relaxed you are and if he takes his time. It hurt me a bit my first time but it was really nice because we were very inlove and we took our time. A gynocologist can tell if your hymen has been torn indicating possible sexual activities. As for telling your parents, I’m not sure what the law is since it seems to vary from state to state and country to country. Sorry can’t help you out on that one. Good luck and have fun!

Answer #2

If your parents found out, they could press charges against him for statutory rape! Any1 under the age of 18 is not legal. He should be careful, and know what the risks are!!

Answer #3

Be careful! If you know in your heart that if anything was to happen between you two, that you won’t regret it. Because your virginity is something you can never get back. My first time, hurt. It wasn’t very romantic, which if I could go back it would have. Make it romantic. No, I don’t think they can tell if you’ve had sex because they ask me if I have. But they won’t tell your parents unless it is something serious. If it affects your health. Another tip, don’t tell them how old he is. They could tell authority.

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