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Well I’ve been talking to this guy for about 4 months and we pretty much did everything already..so he finally pop’s the question askes me out. so we started dating now. well everything was going great with him. Then one day we spent almost the whole day together…and the next day we had no communcation what so ever. I understand he works a lot but I feel like he can call me at work just to say hi and what im up too and he never does. well anyways I tried calling to see whats going on and he didnt answer. so I was furious and confused. so anohter days go by and he finally calls me like nothing, and says we moving to fast an he wants to take things slower and start all over? so im confused I dont understand him? I dont know what change his mind all of a sudden? and I dont know what to do? please help me!!!

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Answer #1

All those times you hooked up? You were just a booty call. He probably asked you out because he feels horrible about hooking up with no real commitment. Then he found someone else or wants someone else to “play with” so there ya go.

Answer #2

I say that when you have feelings for a guy, don’t ever jump into a hook up and expect everything to be fine. That will only show that your too easy and you don’t repsect yourself. Although you started out as a booty call, he may of just now started to have actual feelings towards you. I don’t know why else he would ask you out after all that? or maybe xxxgizmo13xxx is right and he just felt sorry for you? usually that doesn’t happen and guys normally just leave the girls that they just hooked up with. I say that if he isn’t calling you as much or w e, take it slow and don’t call him because if will show desperation. For now just follow his advice by starting over, hes giving you a chance to change.

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