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should I be the one to blame for him leaving?? my child was choking on an object, because her father was out smoking a cig, and I was bizzy, and he left her in tthe living room. she choked and I got it out, and I went after her father, we started fighting, hitting and punching he said he hated me, and that he doesnt want to be with me anymore or ever come to my house again. (now he has said this before, but this time he hasnt called in 1 1/2 days) his aunt wont let him come over here she was also in the fight, he said before this all happened that he would take a bullet for me, but even the smallest fight he takes his aunts side. I dont want to be his 2nd choice everytime, I want to be his 1st. I want him to be a father and boyfriend and not an aunties boy so much. how can I fix this.??? I tried calling they wont let me speak to him, I tried contacting him on computer still nothing. I don’t know what to do, im lost and I dont want to loose him, I dont want to have to tell my daughter when she is older that she doesnt have a father anymore.

can you please help me find a way to get him to understand. and come back home.

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You can fix this by realizing that wanting something will not make it happen. If you and your daughter are not priorities, then you need to start thinking less about what you want and more about what is best for your child. Sometimes no father, or a non-biological father is better than a neglectful father.

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