I'm scared of long term relationships...

Your just not ready yet thats all!!

I had the same problem..I was also scared..It just simply means Ur not ready..And u cant force urself to be ready either..When i was 15 im goin on 17 in 2 months but here we go..when i was 15 yrs old my friend had an ex that she simply hated and Broke up with him cuz she hated him me and her ex started talkin and I noticed iwas fallin in love with him.. I finally met him in person and my feelins got stronger for this man who wasnt attracitve at all..who was boreing and was simply 320 plds..and I relized i never was ready because I went for looks..Now Im so In love with him and were togeather and been togeather since my 16th birthday..and I even think im pregnant by him..So if u go for looks that may be ur problem..but other then that sweetheart..Ur just scared and gotta find the RIGHT man dont find one and just settle down becuz ur friends are its not good..find the right one..

Hey hunni. Dont worry about it. I used to be exactly the same and even now i panic and just dont like the thought of being trapped with the same guy. I hate dumping people and i did the same thing as you, just broke it off after hardly any time at all. I think that you just need to make sure you really like the guy before you officially get together. You can always “see” someone just to find out how you get along, you can see each other exclusively or just meet up and have fun with no commitments. When you find someone that you really want to be with you’ll stop thinking of what you’re missing out on and just miss him. Just focus on the here and now of the relationship, go with the flow and take it day by day. My new bf and I were seeing each other for like 2 months before we got together (mainly cos of our exams) and he told me to stop worrying about things that might never happen and just enjoy it while it lasts. Good luck hun, im sure you’ll find some1 who you’ll want to be with and who will be right for you soon. x