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Theres this guy. I truly am in love with him. it’s not even the giggly omg he’s so cute I love him type thing. it’s the true I could see my self with him everyday for the rest of my life. the thing is we used to be unbelieveably close and I’m not sure what happened but he stopped talking to me. I’ve pretty much loved him for like 5 years now I’d say. I really want him to start talking to me again. it’s someone who I really can’t get over. spending hours on his roof just talking and drinking hot chocolate at like 2 am. he was my neighbor by the way so I saw him daily. he has his quirks but I love everything about him. he’s my first and only true love I’ve ever had. and I know I will alweays no matter what have feelings for him. that is a fact. cause through all thats happened between us I still feel the same. it’s not sexual at all. we just used to lvoe being with eachother constantly. never kissed or anything hugging was our thing =] he really truly meant everything to me and I could go on for hours and hours but as I said we fell apart and I’m really not sure what happened. he is the only person I’ve ever been able to handle from about 3 in the afternoon to midnight every weekday and then on weekends nwaking up to him with doughnuts at my door till about 3 in the morning. I really would like to get back in touch with him. I really dont know how. please truly this would mean everything to me just give me some ideas.

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Answer #1

Try talking to him, do you go to the same school? How old are you? Well if you have his number give him a call and ask to hang out. Since we are almost out of school, you might be out already, considering its summer.

Ask him to hang out.

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Just call him up :]

Good luck!

Answer #2

If he says he started to “care” too much, then why wasnt he afraid to say he loved you? Saying “I love you” to someone is more deep than caring for someone.

If you both wanted to be with one another, then why didnt it ever happen?

Answer #3

is he dating someone all of a sudden? didn’t sound like he would of had time because you two were always together, but…gosh I don’t know? you need to talk to him. thats the only thing that comes to my mind is if he started dating somebody

Answer #4

It looks to me like he thought he was just a good friend. That’s what I would think if I was him. Now, he’s probably scared off a little by you asking to “date”.

Answer #5

If it wasnt a friendship, you two would have been dating, and kissing. Something couples do. I think you just misinterpreted his intentions, because I have tons of guy friends, and we used to do everything you guys did. It was a friendship, nothing more. If there was more than that between you, then why didnt you two ever start dating? If he was that into you like you felt he was, he wouldnt be blowing you off.

Answer #6

Its obvious he isnt interested in you. I think if he wanted to talk/hang out with you, he would have called you. What you seemed to have had between the two of you was nothing more than a friendship. At least from his perspective.

Im getting from all your previous questions that you are trying to find love from anyone, & anyway you can. An older man, and even a best friend…

Answer #7

I think if he’s saying he’s to busy every time you want to hang out then it just isn’t meant to be. you may have these feelings but that doesnt mean he does too. If he had the same feelings you have for him he you would have dated when you were close. He may just think that you were best friends and he wants nothing more. Maybe you started showing feelings of more than friends and he didn’t know how to handle it so stopped talking? Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel that’s the best you can do but be prepared for the truth which may not be what you want to hear.

Answer #8

just go an talk to him. see what happened but dont be pushy. just nice

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