I'm addicted to porn and masterbating! Is this dangerous?

before I met my girlfriend I masterbated to porn almost every night.

am I a porn addict? I masterbate, or used to before I met her, to porn every night almost. And I pro-long the orgasm for 10 minutes to an hour sometimes, on purpose, for pleasure purposes. Could this be dangerous? Is it normal? is this good that I masterbate so much and watch so much porn? I find it harder for her to give me an orgasm through a handjob. Could this be because Im used to the porn? Help me! I don’t want to ‘break’ myself.

Answer #1

Hey gothik or anybody if my penis is little dry and some wut ripped is it because of I didnt use lubricant or wut …I need to know or I just masterbate way too much… I need ASAP

Answer #2

meh, doesnt matter if you did, dont do it anymore

Answer #3

Want to try something DIFFERENT ??? just do the following RIGHT NOW ;

1–chant ‘hari om’(hari as in HURRY & om as in HOME without the ‘H’) do this repetedly & a point will come where you will feel like you just want to close your eyes ( in that case case do it).At this point increase the number of O in om like HARI OOOM & then —HARI OOOM— & so on.when you chant this VEDIC MANTRA then remain silent (no thinking!,fidgeting,moving,etc) for an amount of time taken to chant this one mantra.this looks very very simple but its effects are very very very large (even ALBERT EINSTEIN would not had imagine it !!!). this is called ‘CHUP SADHANA’ & I learned it from ‘param pujya ASARAMJI bapu’.—>”www.asharam.org “

also read folowing http://hariombooks.googlepages.com/english_book_TheSecretOfEternalYouth.htm http://hariombooks.googlepages.com/Elixir_of_life.htm it will help remove all weakness from you,believe me millions have obtained benefits from it ,literally.

note: women durimg their periods are not to chant OM but they can chant HARI

this I say to you on basis of teachings of ‘param pujya ASARAMJI bapu’

http://www.ashram.org
http://www.hariomgroup.net http://www.hariomgroup.org

Answer #4

hi I am catholic, but I think sex is the greates thing ! I want to know though… how exactly do you prolongue your org*sm?

Answer #5

no. porn is fun and recreational:) I like it lol even ifyou have a girlfriend you can still be obliged to pleasuring yourself.

Answer #6

Hmm, once a day is about average among my adult male friends. Some guys masurbae up to 5 times a day, some guys only do it once a month or less. I have a friend who’s a Catholic who’s only ever masurbaed once in his whole like, but he’s a monk, so he’s a bit extreme anyway.

There’s no rule about how many times you can do it. Stop when you get sore.

The porn is optional.

Delaying your orgasm is a good technique. Try setting an alarm clock for 20 minutes’ time, and hold out until the alarm goes off. If that’s too hard, try a shorter time. You should be able to last longer as you get older. Just slow down when you get close to c*mming.

You can’t break yourself with ordinary sex and masurbaion. It is possible to tear your skin or even “fracture” your pen!s if you’re too rough.

The main thing is to have fun !

Answer #7

so your telling me you suck your own balls? I thought that was phisically impossible!! LOL by the way your never going to get a girl doin it with yourself all the time she will ask you hey you want to do it and you will say sure when she gets out of the bathroom you will be suckin it yourself!!!1 LOL LOL LOL

Answer #8

What you might want to try with your GF is to get some porn you both can look at, and enjoy with each other. If she likes looking at it with you, both of you will be turned on, and get a little busy. Me and my GF tried it and she loved it (Of course my GF is bisexual and she mostly likes lesbian porn but she doesn’t like the thought of her being with me and a girl at the same time because she wants me to herself haha!, Anyways…) Yeah, if your gf likes porn, get her some and share it with her. Masterbating is a normal thing, mostly depending on your age, usually occurs mostly in 12-16 or 17 year olds who masterbate the most often, I used to masterbate to porn alot like you, but I couldn’t everynight because my penis was still growing wider and longer in size and the skin would rip some and strangly it would grow but that’s just how my body works, so I don’t masterbate as much by myself anymore because it hurt with the rips and stuff… (Of course I didn’t use a lubricate because I don’t like the mess, so my gf just gives a handjob, or a bj, and I will let her know what I like and what I don’t like, and I say it as sencerly as possible so you can teach her how to push your buttons (hehe). Try new positions, look them up from google try “Educational Oral Sex Positions” but put Education in quotes because you might get more porn sites that won’t help you as much as a site that would help you would. Hope I helped you some… Bye! ^_^

Answer #9

Take it from me, masturbation and porn addiction will lead to difficult in reaching orgasm with a partner. Porn is something that people usually watch alone (especially guys), and so is masturbation. It’s a lone activity most of the time. Your hand, your computer (probably), etc. Depending on how old you are, the older you get, and the more you do this, will probably make it extremely hard, if not possible to even have an orgasm and/or cum with your girlfriend giving a handjob. I screwed myself up like this, and at 23, I actually am prefering porn and masturbation over being with a partner. Every night, I masturbate, and I am in control. Well I don’t care, I don’t have long to enjoy all of this, so all I can say is enjoy what you want. Sex with a partner, or at least, the point is all about reproducing anyway.

Answer #10

You should lay off the porn a bit. While a little doesn’t hurt … too much can make you visually de-sensitized. Try using just your imagination. Teach her how you masturbate. It’s hard for her to know what signals cue her to go faster or slow down etc. She isn’t feeling what you’re feeling so help her out a bit.

Answer #11

My LORDY, you are asking a LOT of questions. I think you’ve got a lot of stress on your mind right now, especially with all that’s going on with your girlfriend, don’t get too deep into anxiety PLEASE. It’s a nasty thing to pick up, over worrying and over working everything. Let things happen naturally, that goes for all your questions, relax a little and try not to have to fix every problem right away. Take it a step at a time, it’ll be alright. Also, porn addicts are addicts because their obsession takes away from time from the person’s usual daily activities (sports, eating, hanging out with friends, schoolwork, etc.) And that doesn’t sound like you. Yeah, you may watch it a lot, but as far as I know so does every other guy during teen years on this planet pretty much. RELAX!

Answer #12

Lmao,, im catholic and I don’t think that everything is gods bahah. and all the stuff he said , I don’t think that is all true either

Altho there is way to much for me to waste my time reading lmao. But don’t think ALL catholics are are the way he is.. because we are not lmao, Half of my friends are already not virgins.. haven been for about 20 times or more, they don’t believe to wait.. no one else does so who cares? they are still alive.

No one is going to WAIT until marriage unless they have like a Chasity belt or something lmao. Like they would just get made fun of for being a virgin.. especially guys.

Lmao, and who rambles about how you are suppose to wait for sex on a masturbation page? seriously lmfao.

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