Is it crazy that I'm going to Mexico with my boyfriend?

I live in FL right now…and I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for 10 months. He’s moving to Mexico with his parents and family, and I’ve decided that I want to go with him because I dont ever want to lose him, and I am seriously madly and deeply in love with him. I tell him everything! He’s my best friend. =)

the thing is though, the only thing that kinda gets me scared, is what my parents and siblings would do. they’re crazy because me leaving like this is something they wouldnt expect from me! I’m in a honor roll student and I’ve never really gotten in trouble.

the thing is, im NOT going to be living by myself or just with “him”. we’re going to live with his parents…which I dont mind, because it’ll make it a lot easier for us! so yea, I dont think that leaving with him is “stupid”. I personally think it would be stupid if I DIDNT go! I love God with all my heart, and I know that he will guide me and protect me no matter what. im just scared of what my family would do…especially my dad and sister. my dad gets really scary when he’s mad and my sister, I think, would like, get a search team on me…lol

BUT, im going to Mexico with a family…its not like im really “running” away, is it? I mean, his parents know and they said it was “okay” and that they would take me…you see, im Mexican (but im a citizen of the USA as well) and I guess HIS family sees it as normal for the boy to take the girl away, but MY family doesnt.

soo, this isnt really a question, but more so, just something I want opinions on!…is it “stupid” that im going? or I dont know, I just want people to tell me what they think of everything I just said above…

thanks =)

Answer #1

well I think it’s really crazy your going, I would just go visit him every single chance I can. but if you love him then I think it’s okay I guess. Your family will soon forgive you, they are your family and they love you and they will suport you.

Answer #2

In order to become a U.S. citizen, you must

(1) have been admitted to lawful permanent residence for five years (three years if Green Card obtained through marriage to U.S. citizen);

(2) you must be 18 years old;

(3) you must be maintain continuous residence for five years (three years if Green Card obtained through marriage to U.S. citizen);

(4) you must be physically present in the U.S. for at least half of the 5 years (or half of the 3 years if you obtained a Green Card through a U.S. citizen spouse);

(5) you must be a person of good moral character for the 5 years (or 3 years if the alien obtained a Green Card through a U.S. citizen spouse);

(6) you must demonstrate an elementary level of English (reading, writing, understanding); and,

(7) you must have knowledge and understanding of the fundamentals of history and government of the U.S.

Special exceptions to some of the general requirements are available for the disabled, members of the military, veterans, spouses married to U.S. citizens living overseas, and Legal Permanent Residents who work for certain organizations that promote U.S. interests abroad. Similarly exemptions from the English language requirements are available for those over 55 years who and have lived in the United States as a Legal Permanent Resident for 15 years, or are over 50 years old and have lived in the United States as a Legal Permanent Resident for 20 years.

Theres nothing stopping him from moving here when he turns 18!

Answer #3

oh I doubt our love and that was my intention at first to wait for him to come back… but the thing is, HE’S not a citizen here of the USA… so it would be hard for him to come back… and I dont want to take that chance of losing him! thats the only reason I’ve chosen to leave with him… because its soo dangerous and hard to cross the border, and I just dont want him to have to do that!

and MEEE, I have nothing to worry about. I can come back if I want to

like, do you guys get my reason now? im a citizen. he’s not. if he goes, he may not come back! even if he really wants to, and I know he does…but the border and the immigration laws they got now are gay, and it ruined it for us…

if he WAS a citizen of the US, then I wouldnt mind that much because I would be like “oh, if he really loves me he’ll come back”

trust me, im not stupid. I know what im doing =] I’ve thought long and hard about this and this is what I want to do

thanks though im glad to hear you guys opinions =)

Answer #4

The immigration laws aren’t “gay” They’re there for a reason. It’s ILLEGAL, what part of that do people seriously not understand? I would say do NOT go to Mexico with a strange family. Especially at 15.. you’ve never been there, have you? Mexico would be an extremely dangerous place for you to be on your own, or even with him and his family.

Stay in the US. If it’s true love then you can wait until you’re legally old enough to leave home.

Answer #5

You JUST turned 15. You cant go without YOUR parents permission! Everyone thinks they’re in love at 15, but turns out it wasnt. You are making a HUGE decision that could affect you for the rest of your life. Especially if its turns out to be a wrong one! Love does NOT make you act in haste, which you are doing. If you and your boyfriend are truly meant to be together, then it will happen on its own. Something called “fate”! You dont need to move to another country, just because you are ‘in love”. If its true love, then it will survive until you are old enough to move down there on your own!

Answer #6

You wanted to know if leaving with your boyfriend is “stupid” or not, yet you won’t take “this is stupid” as an opinion. Okay.

You’re being naive if you think you can survive on love. You’re being stupid if you actually move to Mexico to be with a boy. Stick to long-distance relationship, and maybe by the time you’re old enough to marry him the immigration laws wouldn’t be as gay.

Answer #7

UGH, SORRY HERE I AM AGAIN, BUT ANGELFIRE I DIDNT JUSTTT TURN 15, THE BIRTHDATE THAT I PUT UP IS WRONG..THE YEAR IS RIGHT, BUT I DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE SHARING MY ACTUAL BIRTHDAY..BUT IT WAS IN OCTOBER

but yea that’d be crazy bc I have my bday as todays date..lol

no, im not that stupid lol =)

Answer #8

DANG OOPS I MESSED UP, I MEANT TO WRITE “I DONT DOUBT OUR LOVE”!!!

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