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boyfriend cheater going to iraq

I this story is crazy but please advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for almost 4 years. We were engaged and I found out he was cheating on me with another woman for about a year. He apologized and we got over it, but trust was shattered. Then three months later he went to mexico (although he said it was germany with the army) with married woman and after being confronted constantly he admitted to it about 6 months later. We broke up. About six months later after his begging and pleading we got back together and broke up again in January of this year. After constantly begging, we got back together again in August and he now tells me he is going to be deployed to Iraq. I don’t trust him as far as I can see him, but for some crazy reason, I don’t know what to do.

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Answer #1

I know everyone who answers this question will say exactly what im telling you….BREAK UP, and get as far away from him as possible! Why do you keep allowing him back in your life? He has broken your trust more than once, and you just keep taking him back!! Hes going to keep doing it, because he knows he can get away with it. Once a cheater, always a cheater. He has proven that again, and again. Are you that desperate that you would allow yourself to be taken for granted by some loser who doesnt give a damn about you? You are just someone he knows he can fall back on whenever hes done having his fun…that is, until the next one comes along! Trust is a very important part of a relationship. Without that..you basically have no relationship!!

Answer #2

If you want to have a stable relationship chuck him off ASAP.

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