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How to tell my Grandma that I'm bi?

umm before you say that I’m to young to know if I’m bi or not, I’ve kind known my hole life that there was something different about me. I didn’t find out what it was till I was 10 or something and then I just waited till I liked a girl to see if it was true. um well I found a girl that I liked this year..umm did like, she ended up being a big lier, anyways so now I’m possitive that I’m bi and I’m not sure how to tell me grand. I live with my great grandma btw. she doesn’t exscatly support people being gay or bi, and it doesn’t really help that she’s already threatening to kick me out. I’m afraid of telling her because I think she’ll kick me out, but if I don’t tell her and she finds out somehow, she’ll be mad at me for not telling her and then probealy end up kicking me out for just making a bad desion or something. I’m seriously confused about rather or not to tell her, help please?

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Answer #1

Why do you have a need to tell her? Usually when a 13 yo wants to tell her parents its because she is mad at them and it’s her way of saying, “F* you!” Never a good idea. (She - or he - should wait until going to college and getting a group of friends to support her - or him.) Are you mad at your grandmother? Is there another way that you could handle your anger?

Or are you simply wanting to be upfront and honest with her? If that is the case, there is no reason to tell her because she already loves you. Wait until you are older in either case. Good Luck!!

I wish you the best (This is my 1000th answer!)

Answer #2

are you a boy or girl

Answer #3

Lol, congrats bimjob.

And I agree, there have been horror stories of kids telling their family members and then not being prepared for the backlash. How is she going to find out? If you want to date someone of your own sex I would keep it discreet. Look I wish the world was a different place and people just accepted everyone, but it isnt. As much as I believe in honesty and never having to lie about who you are, when it comes to the person who is supporting you and will be for a couple of years yet, I would wait. Atleast wait till you’re in a serious relationship with someone of the same sex and then have a reason to tell her…

Answer #4

Err if I ws you I’d wait till you moved out then tell her. That way she’ll have a bit of space to think it through. x

Answer #5

tell her and if she is a good grand then she won’t kick you out!!

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