I last way too long ...

being %100 honest my very first time having sex I lasted an hour and a half and only reason it stopped is because I masturbated then she sucked it off. this gets boring becasue I was a virgin and she looses interest after maybe 45 min. can anyone help me on how I can not last as long

Answer #1

If one masturbates that same day, it might take the edge off. If you are young (teen) it probably won’t slow you down too much if you have a normal refractory period (resting period until you are good to go once more). But if you are youngish and haven’t masturbated that day, you may have a problem known as delayed ejaculation. The only suggested work around is for you (or her and you) to manually get you very close, then insert. There are some other things that could cause the delay (fundamentalist religious upbringing comes to mind - good old guilt) but unfortunately it is usually just your biology. You might grow out of it as you get to your 20s. Good Luck!!

Answer #2

man it sucks its a gift but she gets out of it and I have had it by now about 8-15 times and I still do. yes its a gift guys usually last very short. is it from masturbating a lot before we got sexual?

Answer #3

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA you have a gift my friend… and your trying to get rid of it. Im not going to answer this and let girls give you their opinion so you know how dumb you sound. USE YOUR POWER ON ALL FEMALES

Answer #4

You may have just been nervous since you were new and the relationship was new. This may well settle down after you get a few more intimate experiences under your belt. Don’t worry about it too much right now. Relax and enjoy the fact that you are with a naked girl. Don’t forget to use safe sex practices as worry over pregnancy can prolong ejaculation.

Most women get bored after 12-15 minutes of pumping. AND after about that length of time, most women start to feel PAIN because of tissue damage to their very sensitive parts.

Good Luck!!

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