How will I manage without him?

Hi Dear,

I will tell you what to do from my experience.

First you have to know if there any possibility to be together again (not just from your side but from his side too). If you think that the last fight you had wasn’t the ending so fight for your love. BUT and I say BUT if you felt that he’s not going back to you even 1% so you have to forget or you’ll be a SLAVE for your lover.

I know it’s very easy to say FORGET and it’s not that easy to forget, well it’s life and it’s the heart that give us this very sad feeling, but we can’t change it.

You going to say what I do? Listen, there is just one solution for your feelings and you’re not going to like it at all. it’s 1 word it’s: TIME,

Only the time can let us forget our love and our partner. it takes from 2 months to 5 years and sometimes more. it depends on how much your relationship was strong.

I know you’re saying right now “it’s bullshit, I can’t lose my boyfriend” but it’s reality, and always know that you’re not the only one. It happened to all of us.

I know that you’re going to think about him everyday especially when you are alone. You going to listen to romantic music and think about him. You’re going to keep thinking why he left me? no I think he still in love with me, He said that he loves me, he can’t leave me like that and more and more shitty stuff going to come in your life especially when you are sleeping in a rainy day alone, or on valentine occasion or new year etc, his image is going to cross always your thoughts and your mind. You going to have this sadness in your heart and this grugling in your belly, it’s hard I know.

Ideas to pass the TIME ( I Call this period the hell, but the window for a shiny day)

-If you are alone and you can’t stop thinking about him, JUST CRY from the bottom of your heart, it helps a lot because all the feelings that you have inside you will go in your tears especially if you are a sensitive person.

-Getting drunk it helps but not for long time and I don’t recomend it

-try to be always with someone, friends, sister, brother, mom, so you won’t think a lot about him.

-try to go out with your friends and let them know what happened to you, so they help you to forget, and even sometimes they try to push you in another relationship (sometimes it’s good, sometimes not)

-Don’t go to places where you had memories with him

-don’t keep any picture for him or you together on your desk or wallet etc. put it in a box or throw it.

-Don’t look at yourself like a looser or a girl that she lost her life, but keep thinking always that you had a relationship for experience so you won’t have the same mistakes (if you had).

-If you lucky you’ll fall in love again with somebody else. It helps a lot and it’s the easiest way to forget. BUT BUT BUT don’t try to find a partner just to forget, because in this case you’re not going to forget and in the same time you’re going to break your partner heart. So let it be normal and don’t play on it.

I had the same experience from 8 years ago and I never imagined that I can forget my girlfriend. But I did because I’m married now and I love my wife. When I look back to the stories that I had in my life and they are more than 1, all what I have on my face is “a smile”

good luck and stay in touch