I hate it when..

people are like “you shouldn’t be being sexual at your age”. It’s just like, I don’t care. Like on here, I always see people commenting saying “you’re still young, that sort of thing shouldn’t be on your mind, you shouldn’t be doing that”. That might be your opinion, but some people are on here to ask questions, they might or might not be sexually active, that’s not any “advice giver’s” right to say that they should or shouldn’t be sexual at a certain age. I think it’s not good for people when they’re too young because they might get hurt or something. But I’m not going to go on and say “oh you shouldn’t do that”. That’s wrong in my opinion. What do you think, is it okay, in your opinion, to tell younger people that they should or shouldn’t be sexual?

Answer #1

I THINK THAT IT OK IF YOU SEXUALY ACTIVE WHEN YOUR YOUNG AS LONG AS YOUR NOT 12, 13, … IN MY OPINIOIN IF YOU FEEL YOUR READY THEN GO FOR IT JUST AS LONG AS ITS NOT WITH JUST ANYONE..

Answer #2

YES. I think it is very very responsible for an adult who is a lot wiser and knows a lot more about REAL LIFE to tell a kid that they shouldn’t be sexual active yet. We have more experience and know that you can wait. It really shouldnt be important at an early age. What makes us so crazy about this issue is because we WISH that we could be talking to our younger selves when we say these things. So dont take it the wrong way. I wish I could tell my younger self to not focus on girls and get better grades because as an adult life isnt a game anymore its the real world. Having a kid too early can really mess up your adult life which is a lot longer than your teenage years.

Answer #3

Agreed with tripulay.

Young people need to understand we aren’t lecturing them; we’re helping them. They just refuse to accept that we are looking out for their future and well-being.

Answer #4

I know this. But it’s not okay for adults to just go “you shouldn’t be doing that at such a young age.. sometimes talking to 15 and 16 year olds.. I’m like really? I think it’s okay if you’re responible and use protection and that kind of thing. And I know education is important, it’s important to me, always has been. But when adults just go and say “you shouldn’t be doing that…” It’s just like you’re judging the younger kids sayng they’re making a big mistake. I don’t know if it’s just me, but judging isn’t right to me.

Answer #5

I do understand that if you are responsible then things MAY not turn out bad, but when you care about someone you would rather they be safe than sorry. I care about my future generation and I get tired of seeing these little kids getting pregnant and cursing themselves to low class jobs and welfare to support their families. The kids suffer in the end and the human race suffers also. So if you can be responsible then there is nothing wrong with it but for young people that sometimes isnt possible. I know I wasnt when I was a kid.

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