I gave him head.

Hi er_abhishek, You are clearly intelligent and I do understand where you are coming from but male and female teens have always had sexual urges throughout the centuries.

However, up until the last 15 or so years, it was not usual for 13 and 14 year olds to give BJ’s or have sexual intercourse with guys they were not even going out with.

Also, both guys and girls can control their urges if they choose to. I dont believe sexual urges in teens are much greater now than they were 20 years ago, however, I do accept that teens have a lot more knowledge of sexual matters.

Not necessarily of having sex, but things like BJ’s, different positions, fingering, eating girls out etc. I believe the easy access of internet porn has had a huge influence on this., both directly and conversations that teens have had with friends that have watched porn.

Unfortunately, with this greater knowledge of sex, it is very apparrent (especially looking at the questions on this site) that it does not bring with it common sense and an active knowledge of birth control and avoiding STD’s.

If this was the case, there would not be so many questions from 13 & 14 year old asking things like:

Can I get pregnant from f*cking if I have never had a period?

Can I get pregnant if the guy did not cum in me?

Can I get pregnant if I have sex while I am on my period?

along with many, many other examples I could give you.

Many thanks for the debate on this matter though. I have found your views and honesty on this very interesting and respect them.

The above are my own views on the same matter that I wanted to post in response to your last comments.

PS I hope you dont mind but I have added you as a friend.

Regards

Kiasu

hi kiasu, I just quoted the line ‘its just a unavoidable act for a person of our age’ bcoz in our age and at the time when we are crazy about SEX than its really 2 much difficult to avoid it..also when girls are in heat everything go blind except SEX. scientifically,its due to production of SEX HORMONES and we cant stop this natural phenomena as its production is differs in each human being,some may have huge prod. or some may have less. so, we should not blame us and forget such thing bcoz ‘its just a unavoidable act for a person of our age’

U are definitely not a HOE…remove such thinking from your mind as it will adversely affect your mind…its just a unavoidable act for a person of our age …dont let her girlfriend to know about this matter bcoz she may blame you for all this act (bcoz you hv only called that guy in the backyard)..and let me clear one thing,that guy dont love u (0%).. you are a beautiful and sexy girl not a hoe (there is large difference)… So one thing I will suggest u … forget all things..forget that boy , that act…and remember one thing that its just simply mistake for which you should not blame urself

er_abhishek:

I think your advice is excellent but I would question the part where you said:

‘its just a unavoidable act for a person of our age’.

I don’t think it was not an avoidable act at all. In fact, it was perfectly avoidable.

I understand that you are being supportive but jessica56827 needs to understand that she had the opportunity to avoid this situation by saying ‘NO’.

Kiasu

ok I am going to be honest yes you are a hoe…You arent a good friend cause a good friend dont do that to someone that is just stupid no matter how much you like the guy…And him he will keep saying that he almost likes you to do what he wants…I think that you should tell her and say how much you are sorry and stop doing what you are doing with the guy…Honestly is your friendship worth this guy??…And think about it if your friend breaks up with this guy…He wont anything to do with you he will just find somone else or he will keep using you…So think about it aye…Sorry tobe so harsh but it is the truth!!!

I think you should have more respect for yourself instead of just giving BJ’s in an alleyway.

Its very sordid and seedy and clearly this guy is only with you for sex.

Teen guys will often take sex wherever they can get it. It does not mean that they even necessarily like the girl they are having sex with.

Teen guys have quite a different way of thinking than teen girls when it comes to sex.

Most are ruled by their dicks!

Have more respect for your body and your self worth.

Kiasu

no, your not a hoe so you shouldnt feel like one but you shouldnt feel too good about yourself because he has a girlfreind though mostly what happened is his fault because HE should have refused and said “no, I have a girlfreind” so he cheated on her with you you still shouldnt have done it telling the girl will upset her a lot but I think it would be the best thing to do im sure she doesnt want to be with someone who doesnt mind other girls giving him blowjobs because shes being cheated on also he doesnt like you he just said “im starting to” because you gave him a blowjob

how would you feel if someone else did that to your boyfriend? theres your answer

your the hookup girl, and why would you do that to one of your friends? hes just using you to get what he wants he most likely doesnt like you. yes its hoe like behavior, giving a guy anything sexual wont make him like you, and the fact that his girlfriend is your friend just adds to the situation.

Not a ho…cause ho’s charge money, you’re what they call a SLUT. Sorry babe, just being honest. Would you rather I lie?

I do think your pic is HOTT.