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I dont know what to think anymore . I feel like completly uselesss,

I feel like completely useless, my moms always bringing me down , at school its whatever but I feel as if no one likes me sometimes, and im fat , I don’t know what to think anymore .

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Answer #1

You’re not useless, but this type of thinking is.

I’m fat too- doesn’t make us less valuable as human beings.

Your mom can only bring you down if you let her. Fix the things about yourself that you know are legitimately ‘bad’ (as in, I’m aware I’m lazy, I know I don’t apply myself in school, my personal hygiene is atrocious)- and anything else that SHE feels is negative but you DON’T, leave the way YOU want it. It’s your life. Obey the house rules, be friendly, and you have no further obligation to conform. You’re your own person, and she needs to respect that as well. When you rely on other people’s perception of you and praise of you to be your self-worth, you are setting yourself up for failure. It takes 7 compliments to erase 1 negative comment- It’s doubtful ANYBODY get’s 7 compliments per day, so try to be content with the fact that you are the only YOU there has ever been and ever will be. That is an amazing thing. YOU are an amazing person in your own right- and it is IN that right that you should take solace and find happiness.

Answer #2

u have to DO SOMETHING !! you sound juss like my sister..she’s a little on the heavy side but she has a BEAUTIFUL FACE..I bet u.r gorgeous too !! look at the good things about you and thrive on those, while fixing all the negatives you don’t like. :D

Answer #3

u are not useless.god put us on this Earth for a reason. you may be the one to change anothers life or even suprise yourself.whenever you start feeling down just look at all the good qualities that make you who you are.every gray cloud will soon be overcasted by the sunshine.

Answer #4

Well you know talk to someone if there is. If there isnt just cry na dtalk to yourself in the mirror, I know that sounds crazy, But it’s not. And you know what it doesnt matter if your fat, Personally people seem you the way you present yourself, If you dont like the way you look only you can change it. Excersise, Eat right, Motivate yourself. If you really want it. You wont give uo

Answer #5

i can send you a picture of me, that way, you will have a laugh and forget about your own issues. Why dont you take up ham radio? Guys really like talking to the gals on there

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