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I dont know what to do in this relationship anymore

I’ve had this boyfriend for about 7 months now and it seems like he doesnt care anymore and that its ok to hurt me in anyway..and it seems like all he wants me for is sex..and it pisses me off to the extreme..he says hell do something and never does it..and he wont ever let me go on his computer when I need to use it..even for homework..and he wont ever let me see his phone..so I don’t know what to do?..one day when I was over at his house I just grabbed his phone and made a cute banner but I was bored so I just decided to read his texts..which he even said that they were all from me..which the majority they were..except for a few..that said stuff to another girl like..”heyyy! =] wats up dear?”..I don’t know anymore..I need some help! Thxxx!

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Answer #1

How much do you need him, honestly? I don’t think you do. The relationship has run its course and you should have some pride, hold your head up high and tell him it was a blast, but you gotta go. You will be so much happier. You be the one to walk away.

Answer #2

Time to go boyfriend shopping, because the one you have ain’t acting right. And anytime a guy starts acting funny towards you he is trying to tell you something but he can’t say it, I think he wants to break up with you. So you need to do him a favor and break up with him first.

Answer #3

The bottom line is that you need to break up with him. He’s a jerk and he’s probably just using for sex. Plus, it sounds like he’s controlling. You can do a whole lot better! Hope my advice helps Good Luck =)

Answer #4

If all he wants is sex, then he isnt interested in you, or your feelings. Time to move on Hun. Sounds like he has a few secrets hes not willing to share with you. Hes not worth losing your self esteem over. Dont let him use you anymore, if he cant treat you with any kind of respect. You broke up once before…you would have been better off keeping it that way. As I told you before in a prior question, control is NOT love. Dont let his threats keep you coming back.

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