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Mom won't talk to me since I talked to my Dad

My mom is extremly upset wiht me as she recently found out that I spoke to my real dad who lives in South Africa, and he is a total Asshole!!! he does nothing for me and my brother fu** all excuse tha language, anyway, all I did was asy thank you and now she wont talk to me she says she doesnt care what I have to say I still went behind her back but I cant talk to her anyway she never listens and if I make one mistake he goes off on one and he thinks im sleeping around WHICH IM NOT and my mom has her thoughts on the matter, and shes always cheaking up on e1 because on him!! ‘ and I cant talk to her about it cause we end up yelling and me walking out and mre hassle than its worth!! ‘ any advice on what I can do??

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Answer #1

Your mom is jealous. As far as your dad, I don’t know why he would accuse you for sleeping around which I give you credit for that since your not doing that. Your parents have issues and, I would stop talking to your dad and see if that will make your mom happier. Otherwise, your mom is taking things personally and she needs to stop. She needs to stop abusing you verbaly, and, she needs to learn to get along. She shouldn’t treat you like Crap. Anyway, just make her happy by not talking to your dad anymore. I may not know your parents which I don’t, they really sound like they have issues going on, and, you and your brother are pretty much in the middle. My prayers are with you, and, choose what’s right for you not for what your parents want. May the Lord be with you.

Answer #2

what I’d do in that situation is write ehr a letter and explain to ehr that you have 2 speak 2 your dad sumtime shes just trying 2 get ehr own way, shes givin you the silent treatment b strong try and smile at ehr when you c ehr x

Answer #3

When you get a chance to talk to her, explain that you are 15 and fast growing into adulthood and that you need the ability to occasionally sit down and talk WITH her about lots of things. Explain to her that, although you respect her, you are your own person and will occasionally have differences of opinion with her but that that is what growing up is all about.

Tell her that you do value her opinions but that you also want her to try to support you in your opinions. Even though some of your actions may end up being wrong, you still want her guidance and companionship.

Answer #4

when your mom has some time and she’s not busy doing anything , sit her down and calmly try to tell her your sorry

Answer #5

u should just sit her down and try to commucate with her and tell her how you feel

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