I cant get over my ex

I am in my first year of high school and my boyfriend from middle school and I just broke up. I know your probably thinking that iam crazy, becuase I am to young to know what love is but I really love him. I really miss him a lot and I want him back. We have been broke up for a little while now, but we were still talking. Today he tells me he has a new girlfriend and he says it’s love. We still see each other a lot, becuase we live in the same area, go to the same school, and we still have the same friends. It really hurts me when I see him with her. No one knows that I feel like this becuase I am usually the advice giver of my friends, but know I need some advice. So someone please help me!!!

Answer #1

Why do people think that after a relationship ends, and one partner gets a new girlfriend/boyfriend that their trying to make their ex jealous? That sounds so egotisical. Everyone handles situations differently.

Most of us have/will experience this once, if not more in our lifetime. Its never easy, especially when you still have to see your ex (as I did) in school, and around (we only live 3 mins from each other) I even had 1 class with my ex, and he made my life a nightmare when he chose to start a relationship with a girl in that class (she had a boyfriend) but he didnt care, as long as it inflated his ego. As the school yr went on, I began to see an ugly side to him that I never saw. It only got worse from then on. Sadly it took me 3 long agonizing years to fully get over him. He called me out of the blue a month ago, just to let me know he was hanging out with one of my old friends. I really could have cared less. 4 years later, I am now in a new relationship.

One day, you will look back, and wonder how you got through it all, but trust me when I say, there is someone out there for you. Someone who is meant for only you!!

Answer #2

Honestly, If you guys are meant to be together it will be. but he’s trying to make you jealous probably just move on with your life

Answer #3

wow sorry dear bad to hear but there is no age for love and well if her left you and immidiatly jumped into the arms of another do you think he really was with you when yopu were together?girl I am sorry to hear this but move on this might not be love you are feeling I believe you are beautiful wait for a right guy and see how fast you realise that what you felt for him was just a flint.hope this help and get back to me if you need my help as you are the main adviser of your group I can be your main adviser what do you think cheer up girl

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