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I bought a thong

Today I just bought a thong, but my mom doesn’t know. I can’t tell her because she already thinks I’m growing up too fast. Im thinking of not telling her, and just washing it myself in our laundry room. But what if she puts the wets into the dryer when I don’t know it’s done? What should I do?

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Answer #1

You are 12/13 and some parents will arguably say you are too young, others would be more carefree. If your mum is the kind that would be against it. Just talk to her saying oh mum I bought a thong in town today. Its really nice, what do you think?

If she says you are too young or its too sexy or something along the lines of these. Explain to her that you wear many different tops - polos, low cut, boob tubes, halter necks etc so what is the difference between briefs, hotpants and thongs!?

Tell her that you are not thinking of sex (if the subject comes up) and that only you are going to see them. You want to know how they feel wedged up your bum. Some girls don’t like it, others love them.

I started wearing them when I was 11 and ever since I have not got into a pair of briefs because I find them so snug! But I do wear the occasional hotpant if I feel lazy.

There should be no reason whatsoever for you to hide them from your mum. They are so commonly worn nowadays it isn’t “sexy” anymore therefore it is just another article of clothing.

Answer #2

I dont know why parents freak out about that. it’s not like your showing it to anyone so they need to calm yourselves. uh just start doing your own laundry. and if a little while tell her.

Answer #3

haha shell be chill about it…my mom bought me a thong in like 5th grade…lol for my one pair of pants lol shes like w/e its your underwear not mine lol

Answer #4

honesllty..all my things ..I still wash myself.. my mom knows.. only because I was bending down once lol.. But its just a confort thing.. so I say don’t tell her wash it yourself./.:P

Answer #5

if she finds out just say “im not a little girl anymore, and You have to accept that im growing up” beleave me honey =]

Answer #6

just tell her you bought one because you can see your underwear line in your pants thats what I did

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