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I Am pregant and 16 years old

I am 16 years old and I have a boyfriend who is amazin and so nice to me. we have been together now for 1year and 7months. well I am embarrised to say that me and my ex had sex a month ago. and I didnt get my period yet. I took two pregnacy tests and they both came up positive. I am really scared, I dont know what to do. I told my ex what has happened and he wants me to keep it and he will be a part of its life. the thing is my ex was harriable to me, he always controled everything, he cheated on me a lot, and he does drugs. that is why he is my ex and I never want to see him again. I have never done a drug and I hate him so much. I dont want him a part of my life. it was a one night stand the day he got me pregant. I didnt want to do it but I was pressured and I am not good at saying no. I dont know how to tell my boyfriend now because I really do love him and I wish I never made this mistake. also I am really scared of telling my parents they ground me and yell at me for almost everything and I am scared of their reaction. I dont know what to do. I need all the advise I can get.

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Answer #1

You first need to figure out what you are going to do with the baby, please don’t abort. If I were you I would consider adoption. Once you have reached a decision then you need to tell your family and your boyfriend. The sooner the better, waiting will just make things worst.

Answer #2

tell your parents. that’s the NUMBER ONE thing. yes, there going to be extremely disappointed- devastated. im sure they dont want you to have to live such a tough life- but hey, it happenend. no use preaching to about safe sex now. you have to tell them so you can go to the doctor and have healthcare for your baby and yourself. yeah, it’s going to be hard to tell them, but you have to think about your baby now too. your going to have to tell your boyfriend.. whether he chooses to stay with you or not, is the least of your worries right now. then your can look at all the options. keep it, give it up for adoption, or abortion. thing long and hard. whichever you choose, you’ll have to live with the decision your whole life.

Answer #3

dude watch the secret life of the american teenager!! see wut amy does its on every tuesday night on abcfamily I would tell your parents and your boyfriend, because they are gunna find out anyway. go 2 a gyn so they can check you out. if your boyfriend loves u, he wont care. and if your rents ground u, that’llb the least of your problems. I don’t know why they woul ground you because they cant take away your baby by punishing u. as 4 your x,, tell him you dont need him,, he’ll just b a bad inflence on your kid you shud try 2 make him sober up

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