I am not ready to move on - HELP

I was recently dumped by my boyfriend. we were together for more than a year. there is someone else that likes me and he’s a nice guy but I still have feelings for my ex. what can I do. my ex is also confusing me because sometimes he acts as if everything is still normal and then we make love and then the next day he doesnt even call. I dont know what to do.

Answer #1

It’s perfectly normal to still have feelings for your ex, especially if you spend a lot of time together, breaking up makes you miss having him around. (my boyfriend and I broke up for a month, he dumped me because I stuffed up but we got back together after a month so I feel for you as it sucks being the dumpee, lol its much better for the ego to be the dumper) ;)

You do know having sex with an ex is a no no, as you will never be able to move forward if you are still having it out with him under the sheets…

Ok I’m going to be blunt and say having sex with your EX doesnt necessarily mean he is going to rekindle the relationship… Some people are capable of having sex only without any attachments to the person they are doing…As far as he’s concern, your a f-uck buddy that is easily accessible to him (pardon the pun) and once he finds another potential girlfriend, the casual sex with you will also stop completed and you will be the one who ends up being more hurt then ever as you still have feelings towards him.

The nice guy likes you but don’t be cruel and string the poor guy along…if you don’t want him then let him know that the relationship between you and him is purely platonic, otherwise you end up losing a really good friend in the process.

Answer #2

Awww, if you don’t want to delete your ex’s photos from your pc, just move them to another folder as this will be out of sight but you can access them if you want to have a look at him every now and then…I reckon once you find another person to love, you will be able to view his photos again without feeling bad.

Hey, don’t bash yourself over it, breaking up with someone is hard, especially if you have dated for a lenghty period of time…My boyfriend broke it off with me because I pashed one of his mate when I was drunk but my man was mature enough to give me another chance and hopefully I’ll learn not to drink too much when he’s not around.

Hey I added you so your funmail to me should work if you want to mail me…They don’t really like people having “text” conversation on the question board that’s why I added you to my friend list. :) cheers.

Answer #3

you’re absolutely right. It will only hurt me more to have sex with him after he dumped me and when he finds someone else. I told the nice guy that we can get to know each other better first and then we can talk about being more than friends.

I just want to forget about my ex and move on but its so damn difficult. I was wondering if I should delete his pictures on my PC because it just hurts me more if I look at them. but then again I feel like a coward to do that. I know I sound like a pathetic little girl but seriously this is eating me up inside. And I know that our relationship is already dead but I cant help but have the feeling of hope.

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