How can I change that I like her when she's straight?

hello well I think I really like this girl. she has a past just like mine but the thing is I am sexually attractive to her and we did things and she let me know that she regrets it and it was because she drank and she didnt really want to be friends and that she is trying to get her life striaght. I could not get her out of my min my friends think am nuts that I want to be her friend even after her saying she iddint want to be but they dont know what happened and how I feel about her. I care about her so much and it sucks cause she likes guys. . .and she told me she does not like girl. what do I do? do I leave it alone or what. I would change my ways for this girl. how do I get her to be attractied to me?

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Sometimes, when we really care about someone, we realize that what is best for them, may not be the best for ourselves. You cannot force anyone to like you, especially if they have an affinity to a different sex than yourself. I think you should let her have her space, yet let her know you are there for her whenever she needs a friend, because that’s what you want to be: her friend. If she sees that you are the type of friend she would like, she’ll be more responsive over time. After that then maybe things could grow. There is no way to make things work automatically. After sometime, try to talk to her and see if she wants to be friends, if she does, then take it from there. If not, remember, you can’t make anyone like you. Think about it like this: Would you really want someone to be with you because they felt bad, or they felt like they had to or would you rather them love you for yourself? If you answered the latter, being loving you for you, you have to remember that comes over time. I’m sorry there is no easier way, some way that you could make her have feelings for you. I hope all works out to the best for both of you.

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