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I hate my gramma and brother

I hate them so much every day she freaks out whenever I do something. and my brother is EVIL. yesterday I told him to get off the computer so I could use it for homework he does he’s fine then he starts crying and screaming that I hit him! and my gramma freaks out and puts me in time out im only like 10 years too old for that. and so I ge up when therre is literally 15 seconds left and he goes uh by the way, there is still time left and I have to do it again because of him. I am seriously done with him I have been for a while. I haven’t talked to him in a long time. I don’t love him. I dont care if he’s my brother. if you were me you’d understand. and my grandma always yells apparently she doesnt remember parts of our conversations and accuses me of lying all the time. So today I ask to go to the park I call my mom because she cant trust me and she doesnt want to b responsible for what I do on the walks with my friend. and so I call she doesnt pick up I tell her that and she says I can go anyway. and so I do I get back and she freaks out because my mom calls and is like did someone call here? and she doesnt remember I told her I called and she didnt pick up and so she calls me fat and the devil and says I used to be nice but now im evil and deceitful. I HATE THEM.

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Answer #1

wow! now that’s tuff, why is it that you stay with your grandma? is it just after school cause your parents are at work? well, I can’t blame your grandma far too much… cause she sounds a lot like my own - forgetful at time… but hey… they can’t help it! but you should really make things clear for her though… especially when it comes to your brother, if you can’t make peace with your brother alone, then I’d tell your grandma about it and I’d keep reminding her! you should also stand up for yourself and tell her (nicely and calmly - cause she is elderly) that you don’t like being called fat nor the devil, remind her that you did tell her about the situation - nicely, and if she dosen’t remember than fine. talk to your mum and tell her that it was you that called and explain the situation to her, confriming that you know her rules and that you’re resonsible. I’d also talk to your mum about your brother if I were you, if you can’t sit him down… have your mum do the job! hope it all works out for you!

Answer #2

OK, I’m not even going to talk about hate…

Doesn’t yer grandma know that the sibling accusing the other on of hitting in order to get that one in trouble is the oldest trick in the book?

It sounds like your grandma and mother could read books on parenting and get some help. Your mother calling you fat is abuse! Next time she does that tell her she is abusing you and that if she is concerned about your health calling you names isn’t helping any.

Also, I wonder if your family goes to a church where you could talk to a pastor.

Or try calling the Naperville Youth Development Coalition (630) 527-6562 and see if they have any counseling or other resources you could take advantage of.. They have a website, too.

Answer #3

I hate my brothers too my oldest one jake he hits me and says I hit my younger one jonas they will both try to hit on my bffs jonas try to kiss one!!! my brothers hate the jonas brothers so they will go into my room and take all the posters THEY hate off MY wall they are evil just like your brother is I have to put up with two of them tho!!! p.s. jake is a littl eshow off

Answer #4

SORRY BOTH MY BROTHERS ARE OLDER IM THE YOUNGEST

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