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I hate my brother

hi. I have a 16 year old brother and lately he has been acting crazy. everybody is saying how my brother has change.he is acting wierd and putting silly jokes on other people and make fun of other people’s defects. everybody hates him all over the town. my mother got to know about this and she talked with him.howvere he stood up and shouted at her, I defended my mother by telling him that he truly has to calm down and change his behaviour. he started to scream at me and since I am 2 months pregnant he told me that he wish that my baby will be born a handicapped and also he wished for me to fall and hurt myself and the baby. I think that saying these words to a pregnant women is very cruel.I cried for hours. next month I am going to get married and I do not want him to be present. am I doing the right thing? one thing that I sure know is that I am not going to forgive him . I hate him. and I don t want to see him. he’s dead for me

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Answer #1

I wonder if your brother is in some type of trouble? Wrong crowd? Wrong drugs? Maybe try looking under the surface, sounds more extreme than the usual sibling fights. He’s angry about something, or something external is affecting him. Is he needing attention? Has his performance in school changed?

Answer #2

dont say hes dead to you. I have six brothers 5 older and one younger. and they all act like they own me and yea there was a point where I said I hated them but they were never dead to me. a 16 year old boy can be very immature and say things they dont mean. has he been checked for anything? Alll my brothers turned out to have ADHD and they all were put on medicine and got better.

Answer #3

I think that your doing the right thing. Getting married is a very special occasion and if you think that he will jeapordize it then dont take the chance. But you have to understand that hate is a very strong word, your brother may be going through some things and this is his way of trying to tell you. Just give him some time he’ll snap out of it, and if he doenst you may have to distance yourself but remember he is still your brother.

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