Hurt and Confused

If you truly love her, you would set her free! Without honesty there is no trust. Without trust there is no relationship. I read one of your previous questions, it seems you have rushed this relationship along very quickly. You bought her a “promise” ring 2 mos. into your relationship…you cant possibly know enough about a person to make such a commitment so soon! Most likely because your 27, and shes only 17! You’re both at VERY different stages in your lives. You cant expect her to be on the same page as you in the relationship being that your 10 years older than her, that just isnt possible right now. She is still in high school, why are you pushing to get married already? She is still growing, & changing, and will continue to do so until shes well into her 20’s. You’ve already been there, and done all that. Let her grow up, and experience life just as you have. Its obvious that shes not ready for a serious commitment, and when young teens get involved with an adult, they are basically forced to grow up way too fast. 1 out of 2 marriages ends in divorce, because couples get married for all the wrong reasons!

I know it hurts but she ain’t worth it . You may love her but sadly she doesnt love you. dump her . It maybe hard but you have to. She doesnt care about you , leave and forget the past. chill and relax , you’ll get a better girlfriend , one who deserve u .

you need to leave her she l ovuasly cheating try to talk to her friends some more they sound like some preety nice people and ho knows mabe that might turn into something

What hurts the most is I don’t know how I can fall out of love with her cause I’m deep. It also hurts that she lied about this. Cause I was sexual abused when I was 6 years old by a babysitter.

Rape is not an easy thing to admit to, and her making that up would be so sad because theres so much pain involved and its not something to joke around about. I honestly don’t think it happened because there is no way she would turn the story around like that to her friends if she seriously got raped.

No matter how much you love someone, the moment they do sumtin messed up like that is the moment you need to stop loving them.

You’re tooo emotional right now so your mind is clouded and love is making you blind IN THE MOMENT. But try your best to relax. Get some rest or talk to someone who can help you relax and when you think straighter, be logical, and you will discover that if she is able to do such a thing to you and come back and LIE ABOUT IT as well, she is totally NOT worth it. Not worth your time. Not worth you feeling like this.

You’re not confused anymore. Its clear what’s going on. You’re just hurt. & pain is something you’d get over. Just be glad things are cleared up.