Hubby won't have sex

is it your hubby or you who wont have sex? if he wont then you try..

You need sex, so you may do 3 things. Have a secret sex partner. Have a not secret sex partner. Have a sex partner who do you while hubby is watching or is around. The last gives the most stable solution.

I have tried, and asked him to go to therapy, he wont go. He has told me a few times that he doesnt find me attractive in that way. He used to, everything started 2 years into our marriage. I don’t know what to think or do. I have tried so many things, its been so long and he still wont be intimate. I have asked him to go to the doctor but he says his fine. I was thinking he was cheating, but I dont truly believe that. Don’t know what to think or do. If I leave my parents will be heart broken and so will he. I left a while back for a month and he began drinking and gambling, train reck. Everything is ok now but im not happy living in a sexless marriage.