How do I know my boyfriend won't leave me after sex?

Not very many people stay with the person they lose their virginity to all their lives…at some point or another you two are probably going to break up and move on. Take that into consideration before you give up your virginity, because it’s something you can’t take back and young boys ( most of them anyway, not saying everyone single one of them) care only about having sex and eventually he’s going to wonder how it is being with other people, and will end the relationship. I loved my first boyfriend deeply when I lost my virginity to him when I was 15, but we broke up a year later and I wish I had not given up my virginity to him especially because of how he treated me after we broke up…it was like he was a totally different person calling me a slut etc. It was hurtful and I didn’t deserve that treatment either, but he was never mean in our entire relationship, but those were his true colors and he left me after he got what he wanted. Also ask yourself this “If I were to get pregnant is this the type of guy that would stay and help out considering he was the one who got me pregnant?” and if the answer is no probably not, then don’t have sex with him, because you never know anything could happen and their are consequences to having unprotected sex or even protected sex sometimes. So just be careful and make sure your ready.