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How do I get myself to trust him?

I’m really confused in my relationship right now. I have a bf and i know he would give me the world if he could. He talks to me all the time and puts me before his friends. he writes me poetry and he’s all romantic. And one more thing he trusts me…and he wants me to give it all back. I’ve had a pretty rocky start with relationships. I’ve fallen in love. trusted the guys. They leave. And I’m left with scars. Twice now. I sometimes feel like i cant trust anybody. i mean the truth is i really want to. I want to give him what he gives me. but it’s like i don’t know how to. I know this may not make sense but like..what are some ways i can give him signs that i trust him? I mean he’s the perfect bf..but he says that sometimes he feels like i don’t trust him..and that that hurts him. The last thing i wanna do is hurt him. Help

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Answer #1

I kind of see where you are coming from. Your very guarded becuase you don’t want to hurt as much. The best i can say is just let it happen. No real need to reassure him that you trust him. You will just feel it. You can start by communcating and go from there.

Answer #2

well whatever your boyfriends does maybe you could do the same thing back to him. and for the trust.. maybe you could go up to him and hug him in front of his friends without him knowing..you konw so he knows tha your the one for him or hold his hand. you know actions peaks better than words

Answer #3

try telling him u love him and try doing things he does to u !

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