How to tell your boyfriend you love him!!!

It almost sounds as if you might be scaring him you know? I have the exact problem with my current boyfriend but we have been together for roughly 8 months now. So I think that an I love you is in order. I have hinted it to him many times but it hasn’t been working. So I have always been afraid to admit it to him because I am terrified of what his reply might be. The worst would be “Thanks?” haha.

Anyways my advice to you is to really think about.. is this love? Or is this just a petty thing. When you tell him if he’s shy like my boyfriend then he will most likely need an explanation about stuff. Like why you love him because it’s hard for boys to comprehend and also you need to accept it if he says he doesn’t love you and I would strongly advice a conversation about it because if there is something holding him back thats simple then you can talk through it an improve and eventually you can only hope he will say he loves you as well.

H-Groove.

well hun you shud totally tell him you love him..and well talk to him bout it. if he doesnt want to then dump him..he obviously doesnt have the balls to say it to you.and its to early I mean 3months?!?!?! I’ve been w/ my boyfriend for 4months and well we really do love each other.we like nvr fight.but just talk to him..talking is good [: and there are better guys out there [: dont rush <333

I know how you feel I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months and had felt that I loved him for a long time. I was afraid to say it but I finally did but it was after a few drinks which I admit was dumb on my part he didn’t say it back and he wanted to talk about it in the morning. We did talk about it and after seeing me get emotional he did tell me he loved me but wasn’t ready to say it yet on a regular basis. I guess I’m just afraid of what all this means because I went through the same thing with my ex boyfriend and he cheated on me after a year and a half. I guess my advice may be old fashioned but from my experience I would wait until he says “I love you” because its better to know and not give your love away! Sorry if that is not exactly what you wanted to hear…

You know. I’ve read all these responses but yet, none of them match mine. Honestly. I disagree. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 3 in a half months. He told me he loved me before we even said we liked each other. Love is a strong word. That means you’d give up anything to be with them. When you don’t see him for 10 minutes, you start to miss him. And the fact that you can’t walk away because he is walking behind you. Waiting for you to fall back on him. I mean. My boyfriend is the most amazing human being on this planet. I am so in love with him. You may not understand that love means you could spend the rest of your life with that person. That you love him, even if you fight. By the end of the fight you are saying, I’m sorry I love you baby.. Love is a strong word. If you feel like you love him. Don’t hold back. Cause the best feeling is to hear, ‘I love you too.’

As for me… I been with my boyfriend for a half of year so far and I love him but we haven’t said I love you yet… I wanna tell him but don’t want to say it first… I have the fear of him not saying it back or I think it might push him away… I don’t know what to do, I’m thinking of a way to tell him… mayb it will b easier over the phone than saying it face to face as I would love to… I just don’t have the guts… I wanna just spit it 0ut, I’m so annoyed with it… y can’t I just say it and stop bein such a scaredy cat?!! =/

Hey heres the thing I came up with.These are my step I thought about okay hope it helps. Step 1)Decide on a place where you will tell him that you love him. Think about a certain memory that is especially romantic to you, and go back to that place. Ask yourself if there are any significant days coming up when it would be appropriate and romantic to tell him. Step 2)Set the mood. There’s no need to make sure every little detail is perfect. Be sure that you don’t lose sight of your romantic tone in all the commotion of worrying how you will tell him. Step 3)Get his attention. Look your boyfriend directly in the eyes, hold his hand and face him completely. Step 4)Tell him exactly what you enjoy about him, why you are happy being with him or how much you appreciate him. Let him know how lucky you feel to have him. Step 5)Say “I love you” after these statements. If you are still nervous about just saying those three words, make your sentence longer. For example, say something like “I realize I love you.” Once you have said “I love you,” tell him as many times as you can just how much you do love him. Don’t worry it help me okay.

YEAH YOU ALL ARE RIGHT. LET ME TELL YOU MY STORY I HAVE HAVE THIS BOYFRIEND AND WE BEEN GOING OUT FOR 2 AND A HALF WEEKS NOW AND HE HAS ALREADY TOLD ME HE LOVE ME I BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH IN MY LIFE THAT I DON’T NO WHAT TO DO BELIEVE HIM OR SAY THIS IS NOT MEANT TO BE I REALLY like THIS BOY A LOT BUT WE DON’T GET TO SEE EACH OTHER AS MUCH AS WE WANT TO BUT SOMETIMES IM VERY SHY AROUND HIM AND I DONT know WHAT TO DO BREAK IT OFF OR HANG IN THERE. I WANT HIM TO know THAT I WANT HIM TO TRUST US BUT IT FELL LIKE THE PAST FROM HIS LIFE I DONT THINK HE CAN LET THAT GO SO WHAT SHOULD I DO CAUSE IM REALLY FELLING THIS BOY WITH ALL MY HEART I NEED HELP PLEASE HELP ME AND TONIGHT WHEN THE FIREWORK GO IM GOING TO CALL HIM AND TELL HIM EVERTHING CAUSE I WANT HIM TO BE A PART OF THIS LIFE THAT I AM LIVING!!! your TRULY TIASIA

Hi umm… yeah what you should do is tell him what your heart says. Tell him why you love him and explain that. You know boys need detail!! Then ask him what he feels inside and just be yourself. If he loved you, and he picked you over other girls then he will want you to be yourself, thats why he likes you! Also, dont pressure him into saying it, he might not be ready yet, but dont stop saying it. Now dont sound like your obsessed, just make sure he knows you do!

I hope I helped!!

like thiss

hey baby i want you to know

that you mean alot to me

i always love hearing from you

you make me smile and you make me happy

i dont think any other guy could compare to you

im glad were back together again

cause i really missed you, you have the most nicest personality

ever and i wanna be with you for a long time.

i know this is not as long as you were hoping it would be

but just know that i love you and im always here for ya

your the best i love you =]]

I think when he is ready he will say it you don’t want him to say it just because you do, and do you really mean it? Love is a very grown up word not jusa 3 little pleasers to ease your mind….. Take it serious and don’t rush a good thing….

Love takes time to grow>you cant make someone say it if they really dont mean it!! 3 mos. isnt that long! Ive been with my bf for 3 mos. and we havent said it yet. That doesnt mean anything. We care about each other, and are commited to 1 another. Love will come in time! Just because you are labeled “bf/gf” doesnt mean that you have to tell them you love them if you really dont at such an early point in the relationship!!

start a steamy make-out session, and when your in the middle, aks him if he loves you. 90% of the time, its yes

hi I’ve been w/ my boyfriend for abaout 4 CLOSE to 5 months.. and my boyfriiends already told me that he loves me.. and I know it sincere.. but considering my past im not to sure if I can allow some one to get to my heart..ALSO im going ot be leaving soon to another country for a couple of months and this GUY still wants me to keep in touch w/ him and be my boyfriiend he has done everything perfect..and has made me head over heals.. but is it true that the PERFECT GUY IS ACTUALLY OUT THERE? in any case I think I am actually falling for this guy.. and I need a lil advice on HOW to TELL HIM THAT I LOVE HIM..<3 after 5 months..:) please help…

I have Ben wit my boyfriend for bout 2-3weeks now and I just asked da ? Do you think that you are bein pressured into sayin that you luv me because I say it. He replys sayin that no he dosent feel that way and that he Luv’s me for a few reasons but that isn’t one if dim. I have know him since we were in pre-k and I Neva reali lyked him until now…I don’t know what 2 say but 2 follow u’ heart and I told him how I feel but my ? Is dose he reali luv me??? HELP ME PLEASE!!!

I’m not sure what to say because I’m actually in the same boat. I’ve been with my boyfriend almost 7 months now and we haven’t said I love you yet. The whole time we been together though hes been in the navy so thats the even hardest part because we don’t talk on a regular basis but when we do we express how much we miss each other. I feel like I’ve known him for so long and even though we haven’t spent any real time together it doesnt feel like that. Hes kind of a shy person so I was wondering if thats why he hasnt told me because I wanna tell him. but I’m gonna give it some more time to see what happens. if anybody has a similar problem or any advice please feel free to comment.

I very much agree with angelfire… love is overused, and is missunderstood, its a very big thing, and people just say it to say it… and a lot of guys say it just because chicks want to hear it because they are more emotional beings… i think your boyfriend is doing the right thing here… he is going to say when he really feels it… you should be happy that he is just not saying it because you want him too..

yah…its true if i were you..i would be happy that his not using love with me soo sooon…it jus basically shows u that wat he feels for u isnt love jus yet…and he could easily lie to u and say he loves you..but he isnt…so be happy that he shows u he cares…atleast thats wat should matter…and soon at the right time he will let u know that he lovees you… trust me and wen it comes the dai he says it..u ll know its right.nd ull knw its true coz u would hav built a strong bond betwweeen the two of you..so the most important thing is to be happy with the fact that he actually cares about u…and dont push things.. or else u ll end up with a fake relationship. honesty is the keey ..and his deffinatly being honest with u the wway i see it…trust me..not many girls have it like u do.

i know how you feel, every one has been in this situation at some point. take me for example i am 20 and have just divorced my husband. obviously i am no “love” guru, but what i can do is give you simple truths. He may love you, but he as a man will not say so until he is ready and he will not say it again until he is moved to do so and pushing for it before he is ready will just end up with a forced love affair that is doomed to failure. Love him, as i am sure you do, dont restrain yourself, tell him your love for him but do not expect an answer and dont be saddened by this. think of it this way, if he were with you for any reason that was unjust or of poor intent he would tell you he loves you with no reserve in order to further is not-exactly-righteous goals, his desire to further your relationship is reveiled in his desire to be truthful about his feelings at all cost

honestly love does take time to grow but it can happen in a matter of weeks. I knew just how much I cared and loved my boyfriend right off the bat and I knew I was suppose to be with him after a month I love my boyfriend and NOBODY should say that someone doesnt love the other person just because they havent been together for a while that makes NO SENSE to me WHAT SO EVER!!! its stupid. just tell him how you feel if you love him you shouldnt let other people underestimate your love just because you havent been with him for a year. and if your love is that strong then he’ll listen to you when you talk to him about those 3 words. =]

you may have a sense that he also loves you, or you wouldn’t consider telling him such big news. You won’t be able to know if he loves you for sure until you tell him.