How to tell my fiance I want to have a baby?

First of all, my fiance and I have discussed this topic before so I am not just throwing the question at him. We are currently engaged and are a very serious couple and we do not fight very often we get along great. We both have talked about children and he has said that he wants to have children and we both agreed on having no more than 3. I know he wants to have a child right now because he has even said it and I do too but he says right now we are not really financially stable. Which does play a huge factor but we both do carry health insurance and we could afford one right now but we justen want to play it safe. However, it’s been bugging me because I really want to have one with him because I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him I know he is the one. So how exactly do I go about telling him that I’m completely serious about having a child soon? I don’t want to rush into things soon with our relationship we are planing to get married within the next two or three years.

Answer #1

Wait until you are for sure financially stable. I want a child to, and so does my husband, and we could financially support one but we are waiting until we are a little more stable though just to be safe. My friend and her husband had a baby before they were financially stable and they are struggling really bad right now. They had health insurance and still had several major bills. Health insurance doesn’t cover everything. So if I were you, I’d just wait a little while longer…

Answer #2

Thank you guys for your advice :) I really appreciate it.

Answer #3

I know its proly not what yor looking to hear but you should wait until your married to have your kid. its better. I don’t know thats just me. just tell him now that your want a baby soon after marrige. hoped I helped.

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