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How to talk to my friend about what she's doing to herself

Okay I have this one friend who is SO very nice and super funny! I absolutely love her! but lately she seems to have these…interests. Like she’s been trying drugs out like ecstacy and acid, and shes starting to drink. But wait, thats not all. She has been very sexual lately. She flirts with ANYONE! she rubs through their hair and rubs their pants and stuff. She even goes after my exes and the people I used to like, probably to prove shes a wh0re and she can get her way. She recently gave a handjob to a kid whom she isnt even dating, AT A MOVIE THEATER and in the car while he was driving! She told him that they cuold be friends with benefits and the other day she gave him head! This is horrible! what can I say to make her realise the bad stuff shes doing can mess her life up?

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Answer #1

Here’s what I would do:

  1. Get her over to a area where you can have a nice chat(bring some other friends that are worried as well, so they can back you up. If there are any that is).
  2. Tell her about how you feel about what she’s doing(like the description you put up of her just now as a question). Say all of that. And don’t be afraid of calling her a bich or hurting her feelings. ‘Cause in the end even if she hates you, you did the right thing.
  3. After this chat, hug her, cry with her. And if she didn’t cry by the dicussion… Then she’s just completely lost. And you need to give up hope.
Answer #2

I would just sit her down and say hey can we talk and then ask her in a normal tone of voice what she has been doing and just say like facts or ask why she is doing it, never just confront her and tell her that she should stop right away or yell at her, because then she will get mad and it won’t go over well, but you should talk to her and then if that doesn’t work out tell someone you trust about it and ask them what to do and you might even want to consider telling her mother or older sister if she has one about it so that they can talk to her about it, hope this helps a little bit

Answer #3

talk to her and find out exactly why she is doing that sorta stuff, there should me some sort of reason take it slow and dont go over the top, if she is that sweet girl then she will listen

you should find out if shes being pressured by other so called friends into doing that stuff, maybe she wants to be in some sort of group of people? also if she tells you her reasons you should listen first and then talk also dont push her to tell you, do it gently

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